You are not a commodity are you? To be parted out, bartered, and sold? Why give something priceless away for next to nothing? Your virtue is priceless. Once you give it away no amount of cash can buy it back. Even if the moment he took it he became the biggest jerk in the history of the world. HE OWNS THAT PART OF YOU FOREVER. He has bragging rights to it the day he dies, and there will not be a damn thing you can do about it. Would you give him an expensive Cartier watch, a 60 in plasma screen TV, a Lamborghini just because he said he loves you and you should give it to him? Those things you can take back or at least get paid for. So, if you would not give him that on GP, why give him something priceless that you alone own and can only give away once? And if you did, and he did not marry you. What priceless would you have to give to your future husband? The one who proved he loves you because he vowed to spend the rest of his life with you? An I.O.U.? A sorry, you are too late?
2006-09-04 17:38:15
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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Because you only have it once. I never thought i'd regret it, but I do now.
You get your virginity once in your entire life, and if you regret losing it, you can't go back and start again. That's it, forever. Keeping it shows that you're determined and that you can deal with the negative comments that the world throws at you, because you are firm in your own conviction. When you give yourself to someone, it also shows that you really care about them and are really committed to them, because you waited, and they were special enough to get it.
2006-08-29 04:07:19
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answered by Pebbles 5
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Just in case the gods needs another offering... or just in case someone says, if you are a virgin, you win a million dollars. Maybe the virgin is younger than 18. It is a good idea to stay a virgin to prevent stds and pregnancy 100%. Or maybe it is a good idea to keep your virginity to keep your dad from kicking someones a**.
2006-08-29 04:05:15
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answered by missy 4
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Dear virgin,
Your body is one of your greatest assets. The body body should be well cared for,exercised,clean,properly fed, and loved.
When and if you find someone you truly care for, without hesitation and want to spend the rest of your life with. Well then you have found the person to share your virginity with. Be open,honest,patient,and uninhibited.
2006-08-29 04:09:58
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answered by Anonymous
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Girls rush into having sex cause its all the "craze". If your still a virgin by 19, your a prude. Dont let that stop you from keeping your virginity. I lost mine when I was 19, and drunk....not cool.
Its a bout pride and dignity...
2006-08-29 04:05:02
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answered by rachey b 2
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Most people think sex means love and love means its okay to have sex. I believe the two don't go together and never will. The only reason to keep it is for fear of disease and pregnancy, but those can be prevented.
2006-08-29 04:16:47
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answer #6
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answered by 4eyed zombie 6
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its respecting yourself... and having a gift that no one eles in the world can ever have anything like it (sure it would be similar but not the same...)
its looking at yourself and saying to yourself that you like yourself more than just to give it all away and think nothing of it...
and come on... how many girls now say if they could do it over again they wouldn't of had sex for the first time... many of my friends have told me this... b/c i am still one... and i think no matter how much they tease me and all.... i thank God that i could look at myself and know that i dont' have to find the love of a guy to love myself....
2006-08-29 04:16:30
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answered by Anonymous
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the reason im keepin it now is because its the only thing i really have control over that kno one else does and i wanna make sure i give it to the right guy
im 16 waitin till im at least 18
2006-08-29 04:04:21
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answered by tb 3
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Your virginity is pecious and onced gone you can never gain it back! Why not wait until your married ,he will appreciate you better.
2006-08-29 04:16:10
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answered by Anonymous
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Because once it is gone, it never comes back, i wish even now that i had waited. it has been 15 years.
2006-08-29 04:04:51
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answered by who be boo? 5
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