my female friend has not spoken to me in 4 days, before that we will talk everyday at work and in the evening. we will hang out 2 or 3 times a week. little by little she has been opening up to me. she tells me she care about me, and most recently she told damn i havent seen u in a long time (really it was only 5 days) she tells me about the guys that she is interested in and i tell her about the dates that i go on. the other day i went to lunch with my co worker(female) and she was like i m getting jealous and i told her u have nothing to worry about
i know my story is vague but what do u think about my situation
why has she been distance
and what should i do i have to be honest i have caught feelings for her but i dont know how she feels
2006-08-29 03:45:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i called her yesterday at work and she didnt pick up the phone which i found strange she usually is there to pick up
what do u think
do i have a shot with her
2006-08-29 04:10:42 · update #1
I'm in a very similar situation myself. Its a girl that i work with and have become really good friends with. I absolutely have feelings for her, but she just confuses me. Half the time i'm sure she likes me and half the time i'm sure she doesn't. My plan is to just try and be friends with her, because regardless of what happens i know that i need her as at least a friend. Over the next couple weeks i'm going to try and go out and meet people, but if i just can't shake the feeling then I'll tell her how i feel. If i meet someone else then I'll still have this other girl as a friend. I suggest you do something similar, but hey, follow your heart. If you really like her, just tell her. If she doesn't feel the same way she'll let you know, but by the sounds of things you could still be firends with her afterwards.
2006-08-29 03:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by bored_at_work 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it's very obvious that she has feelings for you. hadn't she told you she was jealous? who knows after all the guy she's interested in is actually YOU? i think she keeps her distance because she's afraid to get closer to you and fall for you deeply. she's also afraid that her feelings won't be reciprocated. so before she gets too hurt, she might as well keep her distance from you.
well, if you have feelings for her also, why don't you take the risk to let her know. honesty pays however, be ready for its consequences.
good luck!
2006-08-29 04:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by smiling face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe she is jealous of you and the other women and she doesn't want her feelings for you to get any stronger so she is avoiding you. Maybe you should tell her how you feel about her and then she can return her feelings to you.......who knows, true love may be right under both of your noses, don't let it slip away, go for it
2006-08-29 03:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by dixiegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's falling for you, but thinks that you are not interested so she is trying to keep her distance.
2006-08-29 03:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by angielynn219 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋