We already know that looks and smell is the first attraction, but when you look into a girls eyes, what is it you see in her that tells you........... "I want to get to know her" ?........... What is the spark that you notice in her that makes you weak in the knees? And do you know or do you just feel it and have no idea what it is just that its good and you follow it because you like the feeling you get standing next to her?
2006-08-29 03:44:43 · 28 answers · asked by shy&gental 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A girls smile tells you alot abou who she is... Also the way she carries herself, the way she talks. Women are strange creatures and you have to take it easy trying to get to know them... If you think you know a woman, youre probably just being blinded by all the things you actually do know about her. Making judgements about a woman is stupid... Because you can put nothing past one.
2006-08-29 03:49:03 · answer #1 · answered by jamz2277 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The smile is all it takes for you to want to get to know her.
But the spark that makes you go weak at the knees, is just that, a spark. It is something that lasts but an instant, but we remember it forever. It is a subtle thing, like strand of hair on her face, the sound of her giggle, or the curl in her lip when she smiled last. And you know what it is usually. It's just tricky because after it, everything the girl does is wonderful and you love her, so every smile is the most beautiful in the world and every laugh is adorable, and you'd kill millions to stop her from cutting a strand of her hair :)
Just be yourself, and the right guy will see you do the right thing at the right time. For that matter, many wrong guys will see you do the right thing at the right time and be all over you. :)
I like girls who have a bright smile, a sharp wit, dress well, and aren't afraid of getting dirty. But without the spark, all that is just a beautiful painting or statue. The spark brings life.
Cheers :)
2006-08-29 11:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by Magina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its all about how she responds to me. If i go up to a girl and she shows any kind of rudeness, or being stuck up i get away from there. I like a girl who is open and fun. Someone who is just having fun with life and will talk to you and joke around. If i can make a girl smile that is what brings me back. For some reason if i'm talking to a girl and she smiles a lot I become a lot more into her.
2006-08-29 10:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by bored_at_work 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There IS a certain look that a woman gives off that lets me know she feels the spark, too! It is very hard to explain but I know when I see it and I have never been wrong yet.
2006-08-29 10:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by paul m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I first met my girl, it was like love at first sight....but then yet i wanted to see if it was infatuation or not....so i asked her out and then we got to know each other...she kept looking somewhere else and didn't give me a chance to look at her eyes....maybe worrying if i might fall in love with her...i noticed her smile was very enticing and beautiful...and then i looked at her eyes...her beautiful eyes...as they say it was the 'gateway to her heart'...and yea i fell in love...not once but everytime i looked at her eyes....and i got to know her and began to love her more cuz of her personality...she was everything that i ever dreamed of....but we broke up...sad i know...we do wanna get back together..maybe...i'll see
Yea back to the point, the personality and the level of trustworthyness is all for me...appearances don't matter to an extent...
2006-08-29 11:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by Rock D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's different for everyone. When I look into someone's eyes I see their soul. The eyes tell you alot about someone. You just feel that spark.
2006-08-29 10:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me its the way she carries herself.her demeanor and such.I do enjiy looking at her body and face( I preffer the natural beauty ).Lets face it anyone can look great after spending time i na makeup stylist chair and get their hair done and buy that specail outfit BUT what does she /he look like everyday.Thats the important look.How do they take care of themselves daily.That is the look I wish to see and enjoy.
Next , she should be able to hold her own , meaning she should be able to stand next to me by my side , this way we can take on theworld and know side by side we can meet it head on as a team we should be unstoppable.
She should be able to listen to me and understand me or ask questions if she is confused.At the same time be bold enough to say I disagree.
She must be a godo communicator as well.If you can not convey your thought or feeling then they may go unnoticed.
SO thats what makes me want to get to know a female better.
I know you are thinking Geezus this guy is way too complicated lol , but you asked so I told .
2006-08-29 10:53:44 · answer #7 · answered by Glenn T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well. it's different from man to other man. To me, first i look her face and decide wether she is in my standard or not. If she is, the second step would be try to talk to her, if that run smoothly and i can feel the "connection" i'll go for it. For me, i really don't believe love at first sight, i only acknowledge "feel attraction at first sigh" because to be able to catagorized as "LOVE" needs time.
2006-08-29 10:55:40 · answer #8 · answered by Supriadi M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone that u r comfortable with who have common interests because after sex what will u do ...look at th ceiling.. the spark is different for everyone ...could be how u smile r laugh.. th way u kiss r walk.. unno sexy like.. most inportant be yourself at all times.. cause most people dislike being deceived ... that awsome feeling of need to be next to u always .. comes later.. at least for me...
2006-08-29 11:06:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The latter...for me, i know i am with the right one because whenever I am away from her for long periods of time, I miss her terribly. I had to go over seas for about a year and a half and was away from her, and just thinking about her kept me going.
2006-08-29 10:49:13 · answer #10 · answered by HoodRat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋