..the first time all week and he had scratches on his back. like from a girl? ? ? how should i bring it up to him?? without sounding like a psycho? help
2006-08-29 03:35:12 · 7 answers · asked by christiefallowfield 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
offer to give him a message and then kinda push the question dont just be like what the hell are those or anything lol... you never know it might have been a friend wrestling or something you never know though
2006-08-29 03:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by angelofdeathandlove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how he got the injuries... maybe he was rough housing with the guys or playing football, or his cat developed an attitude.
Look him straight in the eyes when you do, and while it's probably nothing, and you should believe he's innocent before guilty... pay attention to how he ACTS as well as what he says. Give him the chance to be honest, and seriously... ask him what he's been up to while he's away that he's getting all scratched up...
It will tell him "hey look buddy, you can do whatever you want while I'm not here, and I don't think you're playing me... but I'm not stupid either. I'm paying attention to what you say and what you claim you do, and I'll figure out if you slip up and are lying to me." Without your having to actually say all that and put him on the defensive.
2006-08-29 03:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by UnrealJuju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you just want an honest relationship and you won't get crazy about it.Tell him that if he is seeing anyone else,that it is OK, but you want to know.( Then, you can decide what to do about it when you know the truth.) I wouldn't necessarily believe him. Trust your common sense and your gut feelings more than him.Better to find out the truth now, before you have too much of yourself invested.Whatever you do,don't get crazy if he says yes, because he will never tell you the truth again.
2006-08-29 03:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by ejtme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say oh, that looks like it hurts, who scratched you? *pause*, listen to his lame a-s-s excuse and then let him have it... unless he's been out in the jungle wrestling lions or something, there's no reason he should have those unless he has been with another girl. It's only been 3 months so take this as a sign of something bad brewing, cut your losses and find someone new before you really get hurt by this **********!!!
2006-08-29 03:40:38 · answer #4 · answered by cali_gal716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me personally am a sarcastic *uck so I think that usually works well it gets your question out there without showing how much it is really bothering you. Try saying something clever like dayum look at your back did you get into a fight with a cat? Pay close attention to his reaction, and don't believe shyt he tells you!
2006-08-29 03:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you sound all scared when he's the one taht should be hiding? Girl, you need to stand up for yourself and confront him. Dont be rude or 8itchy about it, but just ask him str8 up and see what he has to say!
2006-08-29 03:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by qtiebabie06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him calmly. Don't go crazy on him then he won't open up to you. Good luck.
2006-08-29 03:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋