is it alright to have women as friend when married?

Answer 1

How friendly is she? How "friendly" are you?

Most women have a keen sense of possession. What I mean by that is, you may be surrounded by women having a funny conversation, and she may not think anything of it. But all the sudden, she gets this tingly feeling in her arms and begins to feel defensive or possessive... oh that's why, Miss My-shirt-can't-legally-be-any -lowercut-in-public is leaning over towards you, and touching you with out any reason. That sends off some alarms. And guys, they don't see this. "She's just being nice, we're just friends." And "you're just jealous." We do, not only do we SEE the game that she's playing, we literally feel in coursing through our vains.

We're usually right. So if the girl you're with has been saying somethings about a woman you have for a "friend," maybe you should take a step back and investigate if she's really being appropriate. And regardless, if your partner feels unhappy about the situation, you only have two choices - get rid of the woman "friend", or get rid of your partner. It's up to YOU to decide which is more important.

Answer 2

Why wouldn't it be? If you had female friends before, things don't have to change just cause you're married. I can see it being wrong if it was more than a friendly relationship, but an innocent friendship with someone of the opposite sex is not prohibited. If your wife is jealous or insecure, that's something she's just gonna have to overcome on her own. You don't have to change your lifestyle or your friends when you get married. That's ludicris. You don't choose her friends for her, right?

Answer 3

Yeah, it's alright but make sure that your wife understands that you are just friends. And remember to keep it on a friendly basis. No spending all day/night talking or going out with your women friends. You want to keep down the misunderstandings.

Answer 4

Yes! I have women friends on my 360 from all over the world and they know I am married and they always tell me to say hello to my wife for them. She knows I like to get to know them because they live in a place I like to hear about but may never get to see in my life. I also have female friends here in my hometown and my wife does not mind at all. She knows friends are special to me, male or female. I also work with females!!

Answer 5

Perfectly allright. But watch the reaction of your wife when you join your "woman" friend. Some wives may feel uneasy or even jealous. If that really happens, then watch your action though you are not into something with your friend. It is a kind of respect to your wife.

Answer 6

it depends on your wife....maybe I'm a Lil insecure but i wouldn't want my husband to have female friends. And he would definitely know before we got married how i felt about his"friends". He better not be making any new ones either.. OK maybe i am insecure...lol

Answer 7

yes but you have to realize most women have the tendency to become upset by it...you have to know when you can and cannot hang out with your friend and make sure your wife understands she will always be #1

Answer 8

I have female friends and my wife has no problem with it. I think the real issue is that your wife needs to come first. If you put the female friend first then you have problems.

Answer 9

As long as they are JUST friends and you spend more time with your wife than you do with them ,AND your wife KNOWS about this friendship~~I would say it's o.k.. I myself wouldn't want my husband hanging out with a woman. But it goes both ways. I have guy friends at work, but I would NEVER hang with them.

Answer 10

If you go out as a couple. You never talk about sex or even hint at it. Then yes. If once you have ever talked about it or even thought it then no. You know this answer.