When I like a guy or want to be in a relationship, I masturbate (Thinking about then or my ex) and then I don't like them anymore. It is as if after getting off I don't like them anymore and I am glad and safer I did not do anything to be in a relationship with them. I am worry about not having a relationship because of this way of thinking. What can I do?
2006-08-29 03:21:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u know what masturbation gives u that mood swing for a while . . . that won't be permanent. . . . it depend on age.
2006-08-29 03:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it sounds like you either have trust issues, or these guys that are the object of your fantasies are just attractive to you in a sexual way and that you aren't really interested in them in an emotional sense and be that the case, I think its great that you don't assume the risks of jumping into bed with them. I guess the only way to know is if you actually get to know someone and see if you lose interest once you get off with them for real.
2006-08-29 10:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn some self control. Or try masturbating only about your ex, or maybe me. That is if your 18, lmao.
2006-08-29 10:30:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
weird - maybe if you hold off masturbating you might actually get to see the guy on a date and take it from there?
2006-08-29 10:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to not masterbate untill you go out with a guy. if you dont really want to have intercorse then masterbate for him and then give him a hand job or BJ
2006-08-29 10:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by Dick Dastardly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋