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I babysit my 2 1/2 year old grandson. He started out telling us when he had to go potty. That was when we started. But now all the sudden it is a battle. He has reverted back to wanting a diaper. This morning it was a 15 minute cry-fest that almost put me into tears as well. I feel like I am pushing too hard. Any ideas?

2006-08-29 03:18:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Toddler & Preschooler

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Make it a game. Maybe tell him that he will get a sticker everytime he goes potty. Then he can tell (mommy,daddy,grandpa) how many stickers he got for going potty today. make it fun. Clap and make it a big deal when he goes. Be sad when he wets himself. But remember sometimes kids just go when they are ready. My son was like your grandson when he was young. I tried and tried. He fought me then one day he decided he was a big boy and he was done. He went to the potty all the time after.

2006-08-29 05:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by smile4u 5 · 0 0

Here it is- it has worked for my 2 kids,and others after I tell them........

1. get m and m's handy
2. get a small potty chair
3. get a couple books about potty
4. you need to be home for about 4-5 days straight
5. now you can start. let them run around bare-but
6. Set the timer for 1/2 hour. Tell him/her to sit on the potty for 5 min. (read them a book in the mean time if it's to long for them.) If they go, give lots and lots of praise!!! I mean go crazy!! Give them about 3 m and m's.
7. Set the timer for 1/2 hour
8. Avoid asking the question "you got to go potty?'
9. Timer goes off- ok! What does that mean junior? Time to go potty again he or she would say, or you say it if they don't
10. repeat process all day long. If they go # 2 in the potty, reward with a handful of m and m's. They are very colorful and kids love them!!

11. Praise praise praise. I do spank my kids for behavior problems such as lying, disobedience, and bad attitudes, but never for having an accident. If there is an accident, clean it up queitly, and don't say much at all. Remind them it's ok, but try to make it in the potty next time, or in your own words.

Good luck!!! Hope this helps you. My girl was potty-trained in two days with the method. Took my 2 1/2 year old son a week. Leave pull-ups on them at night just in case.
p.s. if this doen't work at all, try again in a few months.

2006-08-30 05:05:54 · answer #2 · answered by Miss America 4 · 0 0

I know exactly what you're going through! I tried to keep potty training positive for my daughter. That was until I realized that she KNEW what to do, she just CHOOSES not to do it! My sister has a 2 month old so that just makes everything worse because now my daughter is in the "I'm still a baby, too!" stage! So I get to the point where I just make her sit on the potty for about 10 minutes and if she goes, whoopy! And if she doesn't, oh well. You've got to learn when to pick and choose your battle with these little ones because they almost always win! Good luck! I know just what you're going through! :)

2006-08-29 06:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Boy....most of the best answers have already been taken, like Cheerios for "target practice and "Potty treats" (a single M&M or small candy) for trying to use the potty. I'd also suggest reading some "potty books" while he's sitting on the potty to talk to him about how he's getting bigger and all the "big boy" things he'll soon be able to do. (Two books that are especially good are "My Big Boy Potty" by Joanna Cole and "Once Upon a Potty" by Alona Frankel). You might also consider getting a calendar and some colorful stickers to decorate it with -- he gets a small sticker for each time he successfully pees in the potty, and a larger one each time he poops. That way, you and he can track his progress ("See? You pooped in the potty three days in a row!") You might also consider some small reward (say, a trip to the ice cream parlor or a Matchbox car) when he accomplishes some longer-term goal -- say, he manages to earn ten "poop stickers"....

2006-08-29 04:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

When I was potty training my 2 and a half year old granddaughter I made a prize box, cheap stuff from the dollar store. First every time she used the potty she got something, fruit snack ect. Then as she advanced she got to pick a prize for every day she went without pottying in her pants. Then when she advanced to daily dry pants, we would go to the store every week she didnt potty and get a special suprise. It worked well. We now have a happy potty trained 3 year old.

2006-08-29 03:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by mousymomma 2 · 0 0

How about tell him everytime he uses the toilet he will get a treat, like candy, desert, and small toy, get to stay up later, sumtin along those lines. maybe then he will because he is being rewarded. I know, i babysit little kids all the time, and when they cry you just want to yell at the top of you lungs because you don't know what to do. And you can get him those pullup diapers that give you a cool sensation when you have to go, so you still have diapers, but they are more like underwear with a just in case factor! Hope that helped, and good luck!!

2006-08-29 03:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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2006-08-29 16:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by Hyun Lee 1 · 0 0

this is what i did with my 4 and 3 year old boy when we went through the potty training, hope it helps
I put a fruit loop in the potty and had them pee on it, I also went and bought one of those things that played music when they flushed, I also kept little small treats around the house, told them " hey who wants sucker?" lets go pee.............. I think the treats worked out the best........... if they wanted a treat, they would have to pee in the potty first......... i also told my youngest boy when he wanted to go back to a diaper, that diapers were for baby's and he is a big boy, only babies wear diapers.......good luck

2006-08-30 02:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by crazy2have3kids 3 · 0 0

My 2.5 year old loves Dora the Explorer. At the end of every episode they sing the We Did It song and do a little dance. It's the same tune every time with different words substituted for what they did. So, I sing the song and say that we went pee pee in the potty. She does the little dance and I follow her lead. She feels really accomplished after this.

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2016-05-30 15:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

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