2006-08-29 03:18:02 · 13 answers · asked by apocalips 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Hey. Speaking from experience it's no easy way to forget someone. But time will make it better. I know that it seems like when you were with him, the time went by so quick and now that he's not in your life; time probably seems like it's at a stand still. But remember this: Love Makes Time Pass but also Time Makes Loves Pass!!!! That is a true saying. If you put enough time between anything, your love for it will go. The thing is that when women love, we love hard........giving our everything. Now just redirect that attention to something else. Ask God to help fill that void from not having him there. Concentrate on you. Make the best of the time that you and learn to cherish you. Take your time before getting into another relationship. Never take old baggage into a new relationship. Free your thoughts, your mind and heart of this individual and move on with life. Some things are just not meant to be. I know it's easier said than done, but you can do it. I did. Remember....time heals all wounds.
2006-08-29 04:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by DaddysGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe time is a important factor in forgetting your ex bf. I don't know why both of you break off but I suggest you could go out with your friends for some gatherings, do things that you like to do. As time passes, I think you can slowly forget about things that both of you do together. At the same time you must also carry on with your life to find new direction in your life. There is somebody else out there who will treasure you more than your ex bf.
2006-08-29 13:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this is a toughy, well I am still waiting to forget the love of my life who had me as the personal "doormat" for 5 years, I just know I did the right thing and take each day as it comes, hopefully you have a good friend you can call so you don't call him, when the urges hit, get occupied with some other type of energy, you know the "stand back and watch me succeed" type O' energy. It takes awhile but "this too shall pass"
2006-08-29 04:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That word "easily" is what makes it hard. You could always drink or something, but we both know that won't do you any good.
Make a list of what annoyed you about him
Make a list of whats great about being single
Try not to have lots of idle time... volunteer!
And if all that doesn't work, go to the children's ICU floor at your local hospital. It won't make you so happy, but it will make you happy for what you have; and maybe inspire you as well. Some of those kidos really are fighters.
2006-08-29 03:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by Kara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million Get the hades away out of your XBF this is inflicting the matters. once you're in a courting you do not desire the distraction. 2 The hicky substitute into probable planned on his area to force a wedge between you and your maximum contemporary boyfriend. Plus you have not any way of understanding what he might have instructed him approximately it. 3. the guy sounds like a stalker and he's keen approximately you and at times that would nicely be very risky. very final theory: Who do you desire to be with? this is the guy you ought to positioned some time and capability into. tell the X Beau to go on. If that fails get a restraining order of safety.
2016-12-14 14:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No easy way to do it. But one thing you can do is start concentrating on you. Start making goals for yourself and achieving them. Such as learning a new trade, hobby, traveling, exercising, working part-time, buying a house, saving for a car, maxing out your 401K, opening up and contributing to an Roth IRA, new hair cut, etc.
2006-08-29 03:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by dimples22221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drinking and of course jumping into a seemingly conforter (another guy)will not do you any good,instead try to take up some challenging responsibilities that will keep you focus. . .otherwise you get yourself collapsed!due to this pressure which you can turn around to make you focus. . its your choice
2006-08-29 03:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by obaijimere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in order to forget him you'd have to get rid of anything that reminds yu of him a picture put them in a box you dont have to throw them out just put them out of sight so you stop thinking about him and start talknig to new guys maybe that will get your mind off him good luck ! and sorry for your lose =/ .
2006-08-29 03:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by Reefer Goddess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIND A NEW ONE and try to forget, if you can't well try yoiu might never forget, but will learn to put it behind you
2006-08-29 06:27:38 · answer #9 · answered by a.j. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on the people that love and want you. Ignore those that do not. It's wasting your time and energy.
2006-08-29 04:39:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋