how can i not fall under the pressure of sex im a virgin 15 and i dont know what im going to do when my boyfriend ask me for sex because i really want to wait til im married what i f he leaves me and all the other guys i meet leave me
2006-08-29 03:01:54 · 65 answers · asked by Tired_of _the_games 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-29 03:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by prince 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be strong if they leave you because you wont have sex with them that means one thing that's all they want and it sure in the hell aint worth giving up something to keep them trust me!! Just say no plain and simple!! If you have to never be in a place or position where sex can be done. Always be with someone else or be some where that you know there is no way sex can happen!! But be strong trust me all guys want is sex and will more then likely leave even if you did have sex with them at you age the you'll get the rumors and all that drama crap!!! wait for marriage and it will be so special!!
2006-08-29 03:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by lori b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that you are too young for sex. As for waiting until marriage...that is almost unheard of nowadays. Sex is something you should do when you are ready...but NOT SOONER! If you boyfriend wants to have sex, and you are not ready, tell him. If he reacts badly and leaves/dumps you...forget him. Men who dump a girl because she won't give them sex are only losers anyways. Do you want to marry a loser?? Or someone that doesn't care about what you want or how you feel?? Think about it...how long will you ACTUALLY be with that guy?? If he doesn't respect you now, do you really think he will respect you once he's gotten what he wants from you?? Most guys at that age will probably dump you or leave you hanging after you have sex...that's all they want, and once they get it they're done with you...just be careful, and make sure you do what FEELS right in your gut.
2006-08-29 03:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by Figuring things out... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys may leave you now because you won't have sex with them. But, you need to think about yourself and how the fact that you won't have sex with them will prevent you from bearing a lifetime of emotional scars. Having sex with a boy at 15 is a scary thought because more than likely, it won't last. Once you have sex with him, it will be a million times harder to break up with him and you will go to really stupid lengths to stay in a relationship that is over simply because of the sex connection. Please please please respect yourself enough to wait. Not having a boyfriend all through high school is far less traumatic in the end than feeling like you have to have sex with all of them. I promise you that you don't want to get to you wedding day and have to tell your husband that you had sex with many guys before him. That is a lot of pressure to put on a marriage. Think about it before you do it. Think five even ten years down the road.
2006-08-29 03:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by katethefabulous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to wait... then that's the answer already. If your boyfriend gets mad at you (which he probably will) then he is just trying to get some boots. All guys this age and older try to make the girl feel bad about not giving them sex. They threaten to leave so unfortuantly the girl gives in. He probably does like you alot but do not give in if your not ready. I know it sounds like crazy advice that you will get on this site but please wait until you are ready and not live to please this little boy when someday you will find what you are looking for and will know it's right. You will be glad you waited until you were ready. I hope this helped a little!
2006-08-29 03:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by de4life34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Props to you for wanting to save it for someone special. Not too many young girls have those values and morals anymore. I was 15 when I gave it away and I really wish I didn't. I fell head over heels in love with the guy and he broke my heart. The right person will understand and won't pressure you. If he pressures you for sex, that is probably all he is after. Keep your values and hold your head high. You will find someone worth your time.
2006-08-29 03:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up for what you believe in. I would never wait untill I am married mostly because I don't believe in it but you might find a guy that respects you for it. Just remember if you wait until you get married and the sex is really bad you are stuck with this guy. When you get a car wouldn't you test drive it before you buy it?
Think about that.
2006-08-29 03:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by Lady_Death1 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't give into the pressures. If you value yourself and your life choices, others will too. If your b/f can't respect what is important to you then he isn't worth staying with anyway, and that goes for any other guys that come along. The truth is most guys will push, it's in their nature. However, good guys will respect the fact that you don't want to just give it up to anybody. Stay strong and be honest right up front, and if they don't like it, move on. You are young and smart for making your choice, so don't hide it.
2006-08-29 03:08:49 · answer #8 · answered by str8tequila80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow if you feel you are not ready then avoid the situation, stay with someone you trust and would not let him do stuff to you, if you want to wait until your married that is up to you stick by your morals, there are guys who are OK with waiting, there are guys who actually have the same moral, don't know any personally but there are some, and then there are guys like me who like to do it but want to make sure the girl is completely ready... so all in all if your ready then your ready if your not or you want to wait just avoid the situation and don't be alone with him
2006-08-29 03:07:54 · answer #9 · answered by angelofdeathandlove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 15, you don't need to be having sex yet. You will regret it later on if you do it now. If he can't respect your decision to wait then he's not the one you need to be with. It will hurt when he leaves, but it will make you a stronger person! The pain of him leaving you now will not be as bad as the pain of him leaving you after you have sex with him. Trust me!
2006-08-29 03:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by angielynn219 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is that I wish I had a girlfriend pressuring me for sex when I was 15.
But that's me. You, on the other hand, want to wait.
So wait.
Believe me, you're not going to keep this boy anyway. You're both too young, and you're going to date many other people before you do get married.
2006-08-29 03:06:46 · answer #11 · answered by *I CURED My Yellow Teeth* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋