We have a very strong mutual attraction. I know this, despite the fact that we are both very shy. He is absolutly everything I would look for in a guy. Not to mention that he is a god in the looks department and looks more like 35 than 43. And it's not just physical, he truly is a wonderful man inside and out.
Is 15 yrs too much or should I go for it?
2006-08-29 02:54:46 · 29 answers · asked by NyGirl28 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should add here that I have 2 kids and he has 2 kids, so we there would be no more children in our future, which is fine by me.
It also has nothing to do with money. He is a hard worker and makes a little above average for income.
2006-08-29 03:09:24 · update #1
so when you are 43, he will 58, so what, big deal
does he make you laugh?
does he make you smile?
does he make you feel good about yourself???
what i am saying is that if everything is going great, then great
dont worry about the future until the future happens.
so what, he wont be around forever, but guess what ? YOU wont be either.
you knight in shining armour has arrived. jump up on his horse!
ps. F**k everyone else, there not in ye're relationship!
Good luck.
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2006-08-29 03:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you are 28, I think you are old enough to make your own decisions about who you want to be with. The age thing shouldn't matter right now. If you were only 20, maybe it wouldn't be such a good thing! My husband is 10 yrs. older than I am, and we have been married almost 18 yrs. If you both feel the same way toward each other, and he is the kind of man you say he is, keep your relationship going. After people hit a certain point in their lives, and can make good decisions on their own, I don't think age makes a big difference. Good luck in everything!
2006-08-29 03:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by lisa s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a strong believer in "Do what you like." I have always dated older men, I am 32. The oldest guy I have dated has been 63. It is not about age. It is about having fun and making each other happy. The only concern I have is that will you have a long term relationship with him, will you grow old together, and are you caught up in his good looks and money? Those are just some things to think about. Not only that, but older men can be very possessive.
2006-08-29 03:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by Felecia G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey!! I'm 58 and I'm still not old. My girlfriend is 19 years younger.
We went to a rock concert last week to celebrate her birthday. (she used to be 20 years younger)
I won't marry her so she can be free to choose a younger man if she ever wants to. I can't imagine why she would though and neither can she at this point.
You two are closer in age and young enough to have many good years together. You may never find a man with all his qualities that happens to be your age. The people who oppose it are only focusing on numbers. Love isn't a math problem.
Two consenting adults can do what they want.
Go for it!!!!
2006-08-29 04:10:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely Not! You're both adults; if you 2 love each other, that's all that matters. If other people don't like it, tell them to go do ducks! It is none of anyone's business about what's going on in your relationship with your man! There is a lot of jealousy and envy out there. Let them sweat the madness! And keep it Movin!
Ask him if he has an older brother or is his father single? LOL! Stay happy!
2006-08-29 03:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's up to you. But remember, when you are 43 and in the prime of your life, he will be 58 and dreaming of retirement. And when you are 58 and dreaming of retirement, he will be 73 and may be in need of medical care that will drain your finances and put additional burdens on you to keep working for years beyond what you may have hoped to.
On the other hand, all that may be worth it IF he turns out to be the love of your life.
2006-08-29 03:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Certainly not, age is nothing its wether 2 people are in love that truly matters, id say go for it, Have a wonderful life with him too.
2006-08-29 03:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by KAM2000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I going to tell it to you without any frosting on it. NO you shouldn't your kids will not have grandparents. He will be too old when they are 14 and they tell him lets play football. And then theirs the fact about you. Are you ok knowing that he will die clearly well before you and you may have to raise the kids yourself. Everyone will say do you and your father want this and you'll say he's my husband. So make it easy on your self stick with the 6 year mark below or above. Sorry if I sound shallow.
2006-08-29 03:02:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
as long as you love eachother its fine.
my friends dad is 65 and his wife is 52. They are happily married and have 2 kids.
however if you were like 15 and 30, then you might want to rethink the relationship because you are in different stages of your life..
2006-08-29 02:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by surfingpookie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a lover 13 years older than me. He was a great man and a great lover and I learnd so much from him. I picked another lover though and he isnt half the man that my older lover was. Give it a try. Love is not decided along age lines...
2006-08-29 02:59:13 · answer #10 · answered by cici 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋