2006-08-29 02:51:40 · 25 answers · asked by boff1982 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Bully's are only bully's because there own life is that sad and miserable. Usually they have a bad background, are not showed any love back at home or they are jealous! They like to see other people suffer. Bully's are cowards!
2006-08-29 10:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by Vix 2 · 8⤊ 1⤋
They bully other people for a few different reasons.
Possibly because they have an awful home life and arent taught compassion.
Insecure.. they want attention, dont know how to fit in socially.
And some people are just pure mean!
Bullies are weak in spirit, its all a ploy to take away from the fact that they have nothing else going for them.
The joy they get is power.
The schools HAVE to take it seriously and stop this at the first sign. Kids being bullied need to tell the parents and then the parents have to be a strong voice for their children and demand it be taken care of.
2006-08-29 03:08:43 · answer #2 · answered by ironica7 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Most people that are bullies have usually been bullied themselves by someone older than them. Others use this as a defense mechanism. If they feel threatened or scared they will put on this bad boy or girl act to show that they are brave and strong and not scared of anything. When they do this some of them think that they will gain loyal friends. Others do it to make themselves feel good by putting other people down and humiliating them. This is also a way for them to release their anger that they can't release on the person that bullies them. You should feel sorry for these people because eventually they will go through life feeling scared and being alone.
2006-08-29 03:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by strawberries_r_cream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most bullies are (or were) bullied by someone else. Being bullied makes you feel like you have no power, are worthless and bad about yourself on many levels sooooo the victim becomes the bully to regain some of that power.
I don't believe it's joy they get out of it. I don't believe they know any better. The best you can do is not aknowledge it, not let it get you down and really, honestly, feel badly for the bully. It is sad that they have to be so mean just to feel good about themselves.
2006-08-29 03:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
most people bully others because they don't see the big picture and they do it because their life is so miserable and sadistic that they have to tease others to make them feel better about themselves. they see someone with one flaw and use that as an excuse to bring the person down when it's quite normal to have flaws, nobody is perfect. I use to understand why bullies used to bully others because they were judged on and picked on in their life and now they've became bullies, I mean you always have two sides of the story but bullying is still horribly wrong, I don't accept it and it's cruel, there's no joy out of it and whoever says so has problems.
2014-01-27 12:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by big 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are cowards - this is why bullies succeed. They have nothing better to do with their time.
I cant stand bullies - i was never bullied but was accused of being a bully dont know how or why - but when you are friends with someone as a child andyou fall out with them you are classed as bullying them because they may not have any one else to talk to -well that is nothing to do with you but is their personality of being quiet and not able o make friends... Children is children and theyare notgoing to stay friends with EVERYONE all the time.. but bullies need to be tackled and challenged and you will find they wil lback down as they are scared of a challenge and will only pick on/trouble the ones who they feel they can intimidate pointless really....
2006-08-29 02:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2015-08-16 21:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm being bullied. I think they get a satesfaction of knowing they are getting to you and changing you to be like them. It makes them feel big to bully and they take pleasure in belitteling you, or in other cases, scaring you, leaving you with a bloody nose...
2006-08-29 02:58:46 · answer #8 · answered by roooof 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Because they are sick. Bullying has become an epidemic all over the world. i truly believe that it is a disease. A mental disease which should be clinically tested and wiped out. But what would the news reporters of the world do then. It is left to carry on. Almost like a test.It starts as young as toddlers and can carry on to cause mass destruction e.g war. it is solely a power thing for those who are nothing. Love is the answer from a very young age.
2006-08-29 05:11:43 · answer #9 · answered by sleepo 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋
people with a major inferiority issue tends to bully other people, they get the satisfaction of putting people down, there are many forms of bullying, emotional, verbal, physical, ect,etc, you stand firm, they backed down, just as there are many forms of bullying, there are many ways of handling these bullies, but be careful knowing where to draw a line, not to cross it & be a bully yourself, turning yourself to be the very one you hated,
2006-08-29 03:02:16 · answer #10 · answered by Dreamweaver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋