is it normal?

Question

is it normal to feel kind of empty when you have nobody? How can this be sorted without getting someone@ as i am obvously not bf material whatever that is. Cheers


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Answer 1

of course it is normal. we are humans and by nature we are social animals. if we dont have anyone around us to love us and admire us, appreciate us then of course we will start feeling lonely / empty at some point or the other

pls dont feel that you are not bf material ! theres no such thing

i am sure you will find the person thats right for you. i believe it - everyone has a soulmate on this planet

and whilst you are waiting, spend time with friends / family , go to your local pub - make some new friends!

good luck :)

Answer 2

Ouch your sounding down.
Feeling empty is normal.

Why do you not think your not boyfriend material that is being hard on yourself, it depends maybe you have not meet someone who is compatible yet.

I always remember a saying "When your looking in the cupboard for something you have lost you never find it, the moment you stop looking it appears"
How about enjoying the time you have to yourself.
Hang out with the guys do things that you like doing and maybe a girlfriend would not, take up an extreme sport,visit the gym,do something you have never done before,join a club, all these things will give you the opportunity to meet other people and who knows you just might find a girlfriend.

Some times being single is fun.

Do not dwell on it live is too short.

Answer 3

It is normal to feel that way. The whole "boyfriend material" thing isn't true either. What you realize as you get older is that there is no one type that gets all the girls.

People are different and like different things. What you need to do is fill your life with the things you enjoy doing. Be responsible for your own happiness. You will find the right person to be with in time, but you need to take care of yourself first. Once you are a happy person, you will attract more people to you. No one wants to hang out with someone who is unhappy, you see?

Good Luck and find yourself first, the right person will find you then.

Answer 4

Try and find other things to do that you find fulfilling, like join a sports team, pick up a new (or old) hobbie, or you can always get a dog. They can make great companions and will keep your mind, body and heart occupied.

And maybe through your acitivites you will meet some likeminded ladies. Believe me, everyone is bf or gf material, you just have to find someone who is compatible with you, that's all.

Answer 5

It is normal to feel empty but what you should do is find a hobby or interests to occupy your time so you do not fixate on being alone. Believe it or no you can be alone and not be lonely. Try and keep yourself busy and let life flow. You will probably find someone someday when you least expect it.

Answer 6

yes of course it is, but that doesn't mean that you will never find a female/male partner to spend the rest of your life with. what about friends?? Surely you have friends. I feel that perhaps you lack confidence, maybe I'm wrong but from what you have said I guess right. How do you know you are not worthy of someone?

Have you had a really tough time lately? Get yourself out and meet people. talk to family members and confide in someon you know really well.


You'll get there

Answer 7

yes it is normal but you shouldn't feel that you're not bf material...there is someone for everyone..trust me.. hang out with friends to keep your mind off of it..If you have no friends..then find soemthing you enjoy doing...Time alone is what makes the mind wonder so if you're busy then it's less likely to be miserable. Also sometimes...we don't need anyone to be happy.. be happy with yourself and understand that you are your own person and theres no one like you..that should make you feel good..i know i feel good when i see myself as a unique person...

Answer 8

Yup. Especially when you go from having somebody to having nobody. Just because one person thinks that you're not bf material doesn't make it true. Everyone has wonderful qualities to balance their not so wonderful ones. Not everyone is compatible. That's just the way it is. Be yourself. Appreciate yourself. Love yourself. And you'll set the example for your future gf!

Answer 9

You poor baby~! of course it is normal to feel lonely! I can feel lonely even when I do have a person in my life~! if I feel as though I'm being taken for granted or being ignored or any other host of things, I'll feel out of touch with the people with whom I usually feel connected. And then I feel lonely. Yoga helps a lot. I feel connected to all things through the practice and then I am less susceptible to the negative aspects of feeling alone.

Answer 10

It is normal to feel empty when you don't have someone special in your life. You have to learn to be happy with yourself first and be comfortable in your own company. That way when a girl comes along she will see how sorted and content you are in yourself.