I'm asking my children to follow my parents traditional beliefs?

Question

My father is Muslim and my mother is Christian. I dont know which GOD to choose ?
My father said Musilim is the ultimate religion. Pray 5times to allah. My mother says Jusus is the son of GOD .
I'm worried about my children. I dont want them to suffer what I have gone through.
My father always getting a full body check when he fly for a forign country. I dont want my children to carry his name. I'm affraid one day it will become a problem.
And my mother dont want to wear full black color robe. She like to eat pig meat.
My father says that pig is not good. My mother loves dogs.
I dont know which GOD to pray.
I love jesus because he drinks wine. Sometimes i want to get drunk. Specially when I think of this religous problems.
My father always pray to the makka side. I belive allah or my grandfather ask him to do so.
I dont like bin ladin. but My father was happy when bin laden attack USA. He even brought sweets that day.
My mother says that my father is not that religou

Answer 1

Dont choose any GOD! Just praise the Nature around you. The human Nature your boss possessed to give you a job, the Nature that your children survive, the Nature that keeps away diseases.

And if you do want them to worship God, then let them come to it in thier own way, through the hearts.

Answer 2

Boy, are you in a mess. You know, your mother and father already lived much of their lives with their beliefs. It is time for you to find your own life and your own beliefs. You do not have to follow either of their footsteps. You choose for yourself because you are the one who has to live the life you choose for yourself and your for your children and as they get older, you let them choose for themselves. Do you believe that Bin Laden attacking the US and killing all those people is right? Your father does. Do you think if you choose his way and you start killing people that it is right? That is an evil act, not the act of a good God. If Allah is expecting them to do evil acts, would that really be the right way to go? As for you saying you like God because he drinks wine and you always want to drink and get drunk, that is not what God did with his wine. He did not drink to get drunk. You can drink wine, but when it becomes a sin is when you drink and get drunk where you end up doing something that is wrong. A christian God is a good God. He is not expecting evil acts. He is expecting us to love each other and help each other. Remember, the decision is yours, not your mother's or father's, but yours. Do what you know is right for your children. God Bless You!

Answer 3

Peace... there will be human beings interior the way which will attempt to give up you from taking the shahadah as there has for plenty of people who've grow to be muslim. wait and spot and learn islam, comprehend it, and in case you dont comprehend something from the Quran then ask a instructor from the mosque. remember the quran may be interpreted actually, metaphoricaly and symbollically... additionally whatver any imam teaches you, make advantageous u consistently circulate and study your self if what they have pronounced is genuine... additionally, the greater you learn and comprehend islam, the greater you could answer back to those that criticise islam...awareness is capacity... a lot of human beings interior the previous have pronounced the motives they dont grow to be muslim is by the fact They dont decide for to alter their way of existence or petrified of mothers and fathers and buddies treating them in a various way and disowning them or because of the fact they dont wanna comprehend that they been to a lie alll their existence etc... Many have come to islam and majority are woman atm , the certainty consistently prevails over falsehood... in case you ever want any help or suggestion, i'm an email away.. Peace

Answer 4

You must choose your own way. But, usually the children of a Muslim father follow his way---as is expected. However---your father does not sound like a very good Muslim, so I would give it a second thought. Or even better, study and learn what Islam really is.

Christians and Muslims worship the same G-d. It is on Jesus they have a different viewpoint.

Answer 5

In the bible it states that it is made "for all of mankind", let them question all of this themselves........they are suppose to, let them research both religions and others, and choose for themselves what to believe in, you are NOT suppose to go with one in particular just because you were brought up that way.......I know what you're saying about your father though, the thing is most people are so into a certain religion they never even think for a second that they could have it all wrong.............

Answer 6

O...ohh... sad to hear.I dont understand why your father happy of bin Laden.As a pious muslim,he shouldn't be agree with the tragedy.
Pray for the forgiveness and choose your right path.Have guts.May god bess you always

Answer 7

Certainly you should follow jesus. Becoz jesus adviced people to love everyone without any differences.If it is ur enemy too you should love them. After that only you should pray.So that prayer will be effective.
But muslims are doing all the wrong things and then they are praying 5 times which is of no use .
ULTIMATE DECISION IS YOURS.

Answer 8

tell him about any raditional beliefs for each religion and let him choose

where he feel the most close to GOD

religion dont make the man its make him walk in right path

if somone wanna be a "man" he must understand and think about it

cuz saem religion traditional beliefs (fmo) are worng

let him understand the harmonic in the bible or the quran or...

more then go in those path

cuz that will make him more close to GOD then just walk in the path

Answer 9

you'll have to find your own spiritual way, no matter what your parents say. i wouldn't like to be in your situation, my heart goes out to you. bring your children up in the way you decide to go. it may be that you find truth in one of your parents' religions, then you'll be able to bring up kids in it with a good conscience, but it might also be that you don't find truth in either. then you might still face questions from your kids about their grandparents' religions, that you should answer as neutrally as possible to help them make up their own minds.

Answer 10

I agree with answerer #3