i am a white male in my 30s and within the past few years i have found myself becoming very attracted to ladies of different colors or races. i grew up in a predomintally mexican neighborhood and never had any attraction to mexican ladies. the town i lived in was small and the population was about 20,000. but there was only one black family and no asians, mostly just mexicans and whites. but i have for some reason found myself very attracted to asian and black ladies over the last few years, even more than white ladies. i have talked to friends and family about it and they dont understand me. they say its ok to date a mexican because we grew up together. but black or asian is wrong. whats the difference? i just have had better times with black or asian ladies. they have alot more character and sense of humor and i feel more comfortable around them. i know i should go for what i want. but is it really ok to make my relatives mad at me because of what i think is right?
2006-08-29 02:00:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
black is beautiful and they are really beautiful even in old age man go for it check naomi campell-oprah winfrey they are cute
2006-08-29 02:09:28 · answer #1 · answered by Snifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a weird question. It's not even a question. You already have the answer to yourself. You feel comfortable with asian and black ladies. What's stopping you? Your family? You're 30, independent and mature enough to know that your family ideals are not necessarily your ideals. Why is it wrong to date asians? Why, for that matter, is it wrong to date another girl at all? Would they prefer you to date a white man instead?
2006-08-29 09:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by jarod_jared 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tear down these walls!
Not a weird question at all! Relationships are built from the inside out, despite that initial visual attraction. Your family and friends should appreciate you for your selections on who ever you choose, regardless of color or race. It says so much about who you are and how you can identify someone that has something in common with you.
Your happiness will over shadow the disapproval of your relatives and of those that might disapprove!
Just like you said... you and those you enjoy being with....have character! Hang in there! Stay on track!
2006-08-29 09:10:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family can not dictate who you date or have relations with. You are your own person and have the right to choose whomever you want to spend your time with. You will be very unhappy if you allow others to decide what's best for you.
You like Asian and black women - then Hon - Go for it.
2006-08-29 09:07:11 · answer #4 · answered by hollysjuicypatootie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go for what you want. When you introduce your family to someone that you think is great enough to have a serious relationship with, then hopefully they will see that she is wonderful too. That's all that you can hope for. They need to warm up to the idea and change their thoughts.
Love is hard enough to find. We shouldn't limit what the package that it comes in should look like.
2006-08-29 09:07:49 · answer #5 · answered by ncladams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you are the one looking for life time partner not your family or relatives, they may give you their views but not a decision. You should feel comfortable and mature to make your own decision, life is short be happy and find your truth love.
2006-08-29 09:05:29 · answer #6 · answered by vosy2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart and do what makes you happy.You have to live with your decisions.As for your family you dont have to listen to there racist beliefs.I believe every one is an equal dosent matter there age,race,sex,religion.
2006-08-29 09:07:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You`re in your 30s right?Then go with your instincts man,your family will grow to respect you!
2006-08-29 09:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by mamanoelia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're the one who will be married to the woman and be living YOUR life. Date/marry whomever makes you happy, fulfilled, etc etc. You're not marrying your family. People are people. Bottom line.
2006-08-29 09:12:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart man. its the millinum and its ok for people to date out of thier race.
2006-08-29 09:10:12 · answer #10 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋