if you were round a male friends house, would you put your sanitary towels in their bathroom bin?

Question

I'm asking because when using my boyfriends bathroom about 4 wrapped up towels in there, am i being paranoid could it be a good girlfriend? or do you think he is cheating on me? I don't know what to think - serious answers from ladies only please!

I did ask him casually, have you had a 'girl' frined round, to whcih he replied what makes you say that? i said the towels in the bin arn't mine, he said oh yes i have but not like that just a friend, the fact that he said what makes you say that makes me think he thought i could of found something else! yes he does live alone, and there was about 3 or 4 which means she must of been there sometime.

Pan 24 i wasnt looking through teh bin!! I notoced them when i put something in there!!

Answer 1

well i would if i had to but would avoid doing so.. has he got any good friends that are female that he has spoke about? also for 4 to be there she would have had to be there a while??
i would keep a very close eye on things if i were you and see if there is anything else that seems suspicious, and remember trust your instincts, they are usually right xx

Answer 2

Sanitary towels are an environmental subject - given waste, components and chemical components used. A bin whether isn't, it is waste like each and everything else, you place your bin outdoors, packing containers containing menstrual products are no diverse, they may be in commonly used packing containers - i do no longer see the problem, they are purely sanitary pads. it would be properly worth stating the assumption of fabric pads on your neighbour nonetheless, in the event that they have 4 menstruating women all utilising disposable pads that has have been given to be very high priced, besides as wasteful.

Answer 3

first impressions from your story suggest he could well be cheating on you. He's certainly not being completely open with you. If he has a female friend that spends that kinda time around there then perhaps he should let you know before you have to find out, depends what kinda relationship you have. His answer was a bit shady as well not saying a yes or a no until he knows what you know. If you notice any signs that a female has been round again rather than ask him outright just ask a few minor questions on what he's been spending his time on give him plenty of opportunity to let you know a lady has been there and if he doesn't, you know he's lying to you. then you can kill him and possibly get away with it as a crime of passion. could be a simple answer if he's sheepish he's either embarrassed about who it is or trying to cover up or just plain scared of your response if a female friend has visited him. I hope it works out I'm sure its something innocent.

Answer 4

Think of it this way, if he spends a lot of time with you and is cheating then it's going to be for sex only, as not many guys would put the care and love into building 2 proper relationships, and if it is just for sex he's not going to have his bit on the side round in the middle of her cycle now, is he? So my guess is it's a mates girlfriend, a female friend of his or maybe a sister, you didnt say if he had any. Also if you're paranoid enough to be looking through his bin, maybe you should talk to him...just a suggestion...
ttfn ;o)

Answer 5

How neat/clean is he normally? If he's the sort of male who doesn't take out the trash until the bin is really full, they may not have all arrived at the same time. As one of the other people answered, he's unlikely to be having an affair with someone during their period; sexual flings like that tend to center around, well, sex--and in the middle of her period is *not* going to be when he'd be inviting her around. So whoever they're from, the *last* person they're likely to be from would be someone he's cheating on you with. ^_^;
But really, this is something the two of you should be able to talk about; communication in relationships is very, very important, and if you can't talk about simple issues like this, just think of how rough it will be for the really big issues.
Good luck with it!

Answer 6

No I wouldn't dispose of my used sanitary products in any bin other than my own.

Does your boyfriend have any female relatives who frequent his place ? That could be one answer.

Female friends could be another but since you sound so unsure there is no harm in asking. Don't come across in an accusatory manner - he'll become defensive - just casually bring it up. You might even want to try using a bit of humor to keep things light hearted.

Good luck.

Answer 7

I'd be seriously concerned if my boyfriend lived alone and I discovered sanitary towels in his bin. If he lives in a house with a woman or women and they share the same bathroom then it probably isn't an issue.

Answer 8

does your boyfriend live alone? If so Id ask him straight out about the towels - not accusingly - just that you saw them and wondered who they belonged to.
Personally speaking I would NEVER leave them wrapped up a bin of a male friends house - Id put them in a plastic bag in my handbag or something - but definately not leave them behind me in the bin!!!

Answer 9

I wouldn't feel comfortable leaving them in the bathroom, I would just go out to the outside bin. Ask him what the story is though - you need to know where you stand.

Answer 10

Remember that it could be someone only wanting to make you jealous enough to pick a fight with your boyfriend.
But! If there is no possibility of a sister, mother, or other female relative leaving them there, then I would ask him straight out about it.