basicaly i av bin texting this girl a few weeks,we met in a night club and she pulled me.i met up with her in a pub last week and we had a great time she says im realy fit and loves my company,but she only broke up with her ex 4 weeks ago,we arranged to meet up again this week,and we were texting each other all through the weekend,and she has an holiday coming up soon and says she wanna save her money and and cancel the date,she says shes still intersested but dont wanna meet again tell after her holiday in a couple weeks,so i wont see her for at least 3 weeks.what can u make of her?is she still realy botherd or does this mean she wnats to get back with her ex or what?
2006-08-29 01:37:20 · 12 answers · asked by stoke 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont expect too much right away. she might have unfinished buisness with her ex, so dont get too offended if she does. she apparantly likes u and is trying to move on from her ex and is hoping u can help with that, but dont take it as a deffinate thing. get to know her outside of pubs and night clubs and meet her some place nice where ur not drinking =P then maybe u can get her when she's serious or able to make up her mind better.
2006-08-29 01:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems she is playing you like a puppet, like she says to the puppet wait there. She must not really be into you or she would ask you to come to her holiday fun. There must be another man in the picture. You can either wait for her to get done with that man, or you can go out and meet other girls. Theres not just one girl in the sea, you should explore several. The meaning that you met her in a pub may mean because she goes to those places its easy for her to pick someone up. She probably goes there weekly. Also If your really looking for love you don't go to a pub. You need to find a place that doesn't involve alcohol and clubs. If your just looking for fun date club girls but beware of std's. Women wont tell you If there infected. Talk to this girl and tell her how you would like it If you came up for her Holiday weekend. Almost like a suprise. Than you would really see what was going on. Do yourself a favor and think about the choices your going to make and do them.
2006-08-29 08:49:07 · answer #2 · answered by girl176a1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's not an exclusive relationship so keep your options open. She is probably just keeping on a thread just in case she can't get back with her ex though. If you're really interested in somebody you will do whatever you can to see them. I wish I could be more positive but this has proven true with my grlfriends all the time! You deserve to be happy so try not to stress it to much! xx
2006-08-29 08:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok as you were in a nightclub Im presuming you're old enough to have a bit of money - best way to solve this problem is tell her that you'll treat her to a date - that way she can save her money for holidays, and you'll find out if its just an excuse not to see you - if you're offering to pay and she still doesnt want to go - theres your answer for you.
It shes a bit proud about being paid for tell her she can shout you to a night out when she gets back from holidays.
2006-08-29 08:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait 3 weeks and see. she could just want to save her money.
2006-08-29 08:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by REGINA G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she needs time to be with her ex. Personally, I think she's going back to him to see if it will work. If she does come back, she's all yours!
2006-08-29 08:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by Lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she and her ex are going to have a nice holiday.
2006-08-29 08:39:32 · answer #7 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If your a transition guy it would go nowhere How long was she with the other guy is your answer
2006-08-29 08:43:04 · answer #8 · answered by buffywalnuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants to save her money? and cant see you for a few weeks? how much money can she actually save? Please.... you are being blown off in the worse way
2006-08-29 08:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by jen s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question is too long so i didnt read. i just want the points. hey at least im honest.
2006-08-29 08:43:35 · answer #10 · answered by Dr Phil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋