I was supposed to meet up with this girl that I just started dating, its was about 3 weeks or so. She didnt show up and didnt call or anything. Then she tells me that she was feeling depressed about a test she just failed. I was okay with that. Then she tells me that her ex-boyfriend visited her. She said nothing happened but it was confusing. Then a couple of weeks later, we were in a club and she starts talking to some guy standing next to us. Then she gives him her phone number right in front of me. We got into a fight after that. I havent spoken to her since because she said that I was over reacting and making stuff up. I havent been perfect either but it does not feel like she respects me.
2006-08-29 01:23:26 · 8 answers · asked by Urban Legend 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you were overeacting I think you did the right thing and if my date gave someone their number right in front of me i would assume that they don;t want a serious relationship. but i do think that you should talk to her and try to work things out if thats what u really want
2006-08-29 01:28:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you made a committment to only see each other then she is being disrespectful. But if both of you are still wanting to see other people then she did nothing wrong. Have a talk with her and both of you need to decide what you want from this relationship and where it is headed.
2006-08-29 01:28:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like this girl isn't ready for a real relationship. maybe she just thought you two were more like buddies or friends. its terrible what she did to you. obviously she doesn't have any respect for you or care about your feelings. If you like her, wait until she grows up or just move on. there a lots of women out there who would never treat you that way.
2006-08-29 01:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by toobusy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really? Well of course she doesn't respect you. It appears that you don't respect yourself. Why in the world would you put up with that? Dump her and find someone who will respect you. You deserve better.
2006-08-29 01:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face it, she's not interested in you & she likes to play the feild ( from what you say) move on & find someone else,
unless you both want to date eachother & others @ the same time, just DO NOT get too involved or you will wind up getting hurt
2006-08-29 01:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is crazy, Obviously she doesn't respect you. Your not over reacting at all. If i were you i would get rid of her ASAP.
2006-08-29 01:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by Helweh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date someone else. no point pursuing it if it is already going in a direction you don't like. just forget it and move on.
2006-08-29 01:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her
2006-08-29 01:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by Rashil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋