Does she Love me or is she Done?

Question

I’ve been on again off again with this woman. We’ve met several times and she’s told me she was in love with me. She wanted me to leave my job and move to be with her in New York. I decided I would but it was difficult to relocate quickly. She kept on me about it. We had an argument the last time I was there and she said it was over. She is now telling people I am violent and abusive, which I am neither and people who really know me know the truth. She has it in her head I hurt her. I love this woman very much but she refuses to email me or take my calls or even speak to me at all. If she loved me so much how did she turn on me so fast? Will she ever come around and speak to me again? She’s done this before where she went through a period of two months without speaking to me. How do I get her back? Or at least talking again?

Answer 1

Why would you want to continue to be treated like this? You need to dump her, and move on. You should be grateful you haven't relocated. Just stay were you are at and find someone who will respect you. It might be hard at first, but this can't be real love, because love doesn't do this do each other.

Answer 2

Here's the hard truth. if she is lying about you, she probably wants to scare you off. the point is: no-one who loves you should treat you that way. that's not normal. i guesse she doesn't love you or she found someone else. It's hard to move on, i know. But get someone worth holding on to. 'cuase honestly, by the looks of it, she isn't. Good Luck!

Answer 3

io gues shes just hurt u wont give her, her way, if she truly loves u she will call u!!!wait til she calls, dont go chasing her thats what she wants, to see if she really loves u see how long it takes her to call u, because she broke it off with u

Answer 4

If you really love her and have done all you can, now it's time to wait for her.

Answer 5

I think she is So Done unless you enjoy roller coaster rides.