i would choose family, cus family will always b there when u need then, and love. love comes and goes. besides u said he betrayed u already. so there shouldnt b questions bout who to choose!
2006-08-29 01:15:55
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answered by el_oso_candeloso 4
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honey, when i was 16 i chosse my boyfirend over my family and that was the worst thing that I could of ever did. Unlike any boyfirned there not going to be there forever. Your family will always be there no matter what. If you choose someone over your family you could ruin things with your family and it can take a while to rebuild that support and love with your family again. If your young then you will have many boyfriends so don't give your family up for just a boyfriend that's not going to be there later on in life. Goo Luck
2006-08-29 08:23:56
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answered by clairhead222 1
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Family Comes First, Never put a man who Betrayed you First, If the roles were reversed what would be the likely hood of him choosing you??
Besided parents know better(I'm not saying they must choose for you) But as your parents they know what's best for you, and definately, I've learnt thru my experiences that a Leorpard never changes its spots.
Stick to your family they will never desert you
2006-08-29 08:34:32
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answered by blue 1
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You make sure both of you have a good progressing career ahead , if yes , I am confident , now you should again sit with your family and discuss the issue . Before taking final decision , date for at least 4 to 5 times.
2006-08-29 08:25:19
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answered by your noon 5
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being an indian girl with old-fashioned parents i struggle with that question myself. what it all comes down to is true love.
I know people mess up but his betrayal you talk about, would he do that if he truly loved you and remember love is selfless, unselfish, always puts the needs of others before itself. If he fits that and he does truly love you then you can 'begin' to start debating.
I do know that most parents whether they admit it or not do truly love their children. Carrying someone for 9 months, catering to their every need during those 9 months - that is what your mother did. Sounds like true love to me. Providing water, food, shelter, clothes - that is what your family did. Sounds like true love to me. Being loved for so long (ever since you were born) and putting up with you even through the difficult times is what your family can offer. What can your boyfriend offer? Can he offer all that? Can he offer more? and why do the people who really do love you and want only the best of the best for you, find it hard to accept him? I think you'll find your answer if you consider those last questions of mine.
2006-08-29 11:35:51
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answered by Missy chandrasekar 2
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blood is thicker than water hun. Also I know families can really do your head in and you spend alot of time wishing you could disown them - but longterm - they only the want the best for you and can often see flaws in decisions/people that we cant see - i think you need to side with your family on this one. the fact the boyfriend betrayed you once should be enough of a reason anyway.
2006-08-29 08:34:08
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answered by Anonymous
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Well u have answered the question urself. U say he has betrayed u once before how on earth do u beleive him again. If u choose and he ditches u again u wil hav no one to support u neither ur family or him.
2006-08-29 10:58:53
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answered by Sriram 1
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U better leave him cause he will leave u again.Remember family first...They r the one who always help u when u face the problem.Ur bf dump u at first so y do u need to accept him....May b he will cheat u a gain n leave u....U can't say anything....so....leave ur x-bf n go for ur family
2006-08-29 08:31:19
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answered by Frendlygal 3
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why would u go back with someone who already betrayed u. also ur family has been there for u always how could u think of going against them. give urself some respect and look for someone who will treat u right and not disrespect u by cheating on u.
2006-08-30 00:22:17
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answered by mayami 3
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it's ur decision bt in my opinion u should choose ur family. remember ur bf once betrayed u 'n' there is no gaurantee dat same thing will not b repeated again. even ur parents are also against him.
2006-08-29 08:26:48
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answered by coolanu_2009 1
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