Come on and admit it...how many of you check your boyfriend's cell phone for strange numbers or thier wallets for secret notes??? Do you think you have a right to look ?
2006-08-29 00:45:48 · 20 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i admit it im a snooper!!its not that i dont trust him i think we all have it in us!!
2006-08-29 00:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am glad I did too! I was told he didn't have a child. Found out by looking at his pay stub, he did. He lied to me about his age, his passport indicated otherwise. I have been in this relationship for three years and suffice it to say not a day has gone by without him lying. Had I not snooped I wouldn't have even found the love letters he was writing to that girl. Snooping and intuition, it is a woman's best friend and often the ticket to enlightenment. I am freed now thanks to the truth. Hail to the power of snooping!
2006-08-29 01:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I trust my husband 100% but every now and then I will check I think it's in our nature . Maybe it's insecurity or just from bad experiences we may have had. But if you do check it out do it discreetly you wouldn't want him snooping through your purse right? Too much distrust will cause damage to a relationship.
2006-08-29 00:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by lanena423 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are always a bit more reluctant than men to have unquestioned faith. And they are rather sneaky(why do you think Alias was a hit on ABC)
The thing is most men(except narscistic control freaks) don't do this kind of thing and I doubt any real women would do this. It's a blatant show of distrust and will do nothing other than destroy your relationship, not to mention it's none of your business.
Besides, women have a lot more to hide than men do.
2006-08-29 01:02:53 · answer #4 · answered by yasiru89 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i do snoop! if there is nothing to hide you will not bother! He has the right to do it as well, I would not mind if he does. Its just him who is not curious that is why he does not snoop.
It is not a question of females or males that snoop. It is something that is in the person itself. If he is not curious, he will not snoop, but if a male was curious/jealous then he would snoop too.
2006-08-29 00:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still do after 16 yrs of marriage. Yes, we do have the right to look and the same goes for him .. he has the right to snoop on u as well. If u are faithful, whats there to hid??? NOTHING!
2006-08-29 00:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by fierylegs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never snooped in my boyfriends things. If I want to know something, I ask...Sneaking isn't cool.
2006-08-29 00:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course if a guy u a reason too why not i caught someone that way cheating i checked his text and believe me even though its not nice to do so its better to find out if someone is deceiving you
2006-08-29 00:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah I don't snoop. My b/f hasn't given me any reason to believe he is doing anything he shouldn't be... We live together, he stays out of my stuff and I stay out of his.
2006-08-29 00:52:19 · answer #9 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes from time to time mostly when im feeling he is a bit distant.
2006-08-29 01:18:27 · answer #10 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i not only look through his wallet. i look through all his personal belongings. and i definately believe i have the right to, he's MY man.
2006-08-29 00:49:52 · answer #11 · answered by Jennifer M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋