He told me that even if he doesn't call,text, email or see me. Things wont change between us. He will always love me. It's been months since that. I don't know the reason behind all of this but it worried me sick. Should I still hold on to it or should I let go?
2006-08-29 00:31:29 · 16 answers · asked by deepthinker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
we don't have any communication almost a week.
2006-08-29 00:47:13 · update #1
But whenever I needed to talk to him He always make it sure there's a way for me and he answer me right away.
2006-08-29 01:03:40 · update #2
Let it go. It seems like he is moving on with his life. It is way past time for you to move on also.
2006-08-29 02:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by mom of girls 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I"m not sure what relationship you have. If you don't see or talk to eachother then there is no relationship...It's over. Either he doesn't have the nerve to tell you or you just won't face it.
(all men say they will always love you...you will always have a piece of my heart, blah blah...come on!)
It hurts, but move on, it shouldn't be hard, it doesn't sound like there was much holding you together in the first place. Good luck.
2006-08-29 09:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he just wants to keep you around for some reason. There is no excuse for a boyfriend to not contact you for a week! And certainly no reason for him not to call, email text OR see you for any length of time. I would say he is just using you to keep you around for some reason. Even if he is there to help you when you need it, that is what A FRIEND is for, not a boyfriend. A boyfriend/relationship should offer you far more than that.
2006-08-29 08:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by PT&L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its been months then you deserve an answer as to why no contact, after all he said he will always love you. Call him and if he doesn't give you the answer you need to keep the relationship going, then move on.
2006-08-29 07:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by witch_wicked_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where there is a will, there is a way. he is letting you and doesn;t have the guts to tell you. He is letting the relationship die by natural consequences until you get tired of waiting. Love doesn't wait, nobody that loves another waits a month to tal to each other. Sorry.
2006-08-29 08:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to hold on to a relationship, it should just happen. Why would you want to care more about that person than they care about you. The relationship would never work out. You will always be holding on, while they are just hanging on. Forget about this one and find someone that really cares about you.
2006-08-29 07:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go, honey. There's a nice guy out there for you who is just normal and will give you all you want. He sounds like a bit of a prick to me, to be honest. So, if you want my advice dump him (without telling him of course) and go find a man who is capable of communicating with you.
2006-08-29 07:44:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mr X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he married? Maybe he's seeing someone else and just stringing you along....If he really loves you he would be concerned and want to talk to you. Sounds like he's doesn't care. You need to move on..Let go....
2006-08-29 07:37:27 · answer #8 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you know why he is not contacting you? Maybe I am jumping the gum... but because you placed this in weddings.... Is he married or engaged to someone else?? In that case- let him go!
2006-08-29 08:37:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him and tell him u r becoming worried and sick. I think in true relationship one cannot behave like this.
I am also suffering like this now.
2006-08-29 07:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by N O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋