I'm 21 and I've been in love for 5 times, and every time the girl disappoint me and let me too sad
is it a good decision?
2006-08-29 00:21:31 · 21 answers · asked by Michel M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is good for you to learn what you did about those girls before going further and making a mistake. You are still very young and have lots of time to come across a good woman. Just be patient.
2006-08-29 00:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Son, I am 28, I have been in love for I-don't-know-how-many times all ending in dissappointments (One led to a 7 month long relationship). One thing I have learned is this: I won't stay alone for all my life, I just need to find the right one.
To put it bluntly, it is little like trial by error and you have had 5 errors so far... well there are millions of girls out there so you have a lot of more trials waiting. Sooner or later you will find out whom your looking for and that's the day you will find her.
I haven't found mine yet but I know more today regarding whom I am looking for then when I was 21.
So don't give up after only 5 times, give the girls the time and the chance
2006-08-29 07:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by Mathias H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are still very young sweetie. Life is full of disappointment but that should make you stronger. Keep looking just don't get too serious too fast. Take a break from the traditional relationship and stay single for a while. Do what the rest of 21 yr. olds are doing....meaning have meaningless but safe sex all over town. Life is too short, have fun. The right woman will pop up somewhere!
2006-08-29 07:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love comes and go if u were in love 5 times u can be in love again can't u? It is hard to let go but maybe u haven't found the right girl yet.
This is not the decision for u because I don't want to live alone I want to have a boyfriend maybe when I go to college in search of a guy. This is not the time for u to think that way u have a life ahead of u and a great capacity to love.
2006-08-29 07:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by Shirley l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, all of 21 and you are ready to be alone for the rest of your life. This is the time in your life when you should be dating and learning exactly what it is that you want for your life mate. You don't give up just because someone broke your heart. My guess is that you took each of these relationships way too seriously and the girls were just not at the same point in their lives. Stop looking to get married and just have fun.
2006-08-29 07:26:57 · answer #5 · answered by troythom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I am now 25. I thought I was 'in-love" two times before and only realized when I found "the one" that I was never IN love with either of the other two guys, I only loved them. People want connections with other people. That is human nature, but somene times we confuse our feelings because we want them to be something that they are not. Don't give up on love. When you find the one, you will know it without even having to think about it and so will she. The 5 girls before just weren't the right ones. Did they really let you down, or did they just not want what you wanted?
Good Luck with everything!
2006-08-29 07:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by lynswil_25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 21 not 61 relax dude, my parents didn't maryr until they were in their 30's and BTW you couldnt' possibly have been in love 5 times at 21, you'll know all about it when you are and that time will come eventually. So until then enjoy your life and stay out of serious relationships until you are ready.
2006-08-29 07:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably u have been falling into the wrong hands and u are too young to be falling in and out of love. dont stay single just give urself time to get older and understand what love is all about and what u really want in a woman and then the right woman will come along.
2006-08-29 07:53:01 · answer #8 · answered by babygal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.. your life is not interesting..you are 21 and you only got disappointed 5 times..I'm 19 and dumped 7 times..But im not that desperate..We are young dudee.. cheer up..
2006-08-29 07:25:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 21 and i fell in love twice in my life.It was my false both times that i broke up with them.Now i'm alone since 2004.When i meet boys i always compare them to my ex-boyfriends.I have this awful feeling that i'm going to be single for the rest of my life.But then i think''Hey,you're just 21.Relax!''
2006-08-29 07:29:04 · answer #10 · answered by chris l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋