I found out recently that my gf uses me in many ways. I dont know what to do and now it is so hard trusting her. What do you think I should do?
2006-08-29 00:10:41 · 27 answers · asked by zhish_blaster 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had a feeling from the start, and I used to confront her. Its hard but I tried trusting all her words, but I see it so clearly now. Coz people tell me what she boasts. Money wise, fame and name sake. She uses my name to get certain things.
Thanx for support !
2006-08-29 00:23:06 · update #1
If she's using you and you can't trust her, why stay? Any relationship needs trust and without it, you're asking for hell. There's no other way to describe it. You'll always be wondering and she'll probably always be on the defense. That's no way to live your life. Relationships are supppose to be fun and loving not torture. Good Luck.
2006-08-29 00:15:34 · answer #1 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone uses people. It depends on how she is using you. If she is using you for emotional support, then that may not be a big deal. If she is using you for sex, you'll have to decide if thats a turn on or not. If she's using you for your money, then you'll have to decide if the company is worth it.
Everything is balance. You have to weigh the postive things you get from being in a relationship with her and decide if its worth discussing or possibly moving on from.
I could give a better answer if I knew more about how she is using you.
2006-08-29 00:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by Seraphim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even stay with her now? Start looking for another. If she can't be trusted and is using you, she certainly doesn't care for you. You're just a puppet to her, a fall back. Go on with your life before she ruins yours.
2006-08-29 00:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by jepa8196 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then it's time to move on, you said it's hard to trust her anymore, and trust is the most important foundation in a relationship. u don't wanna live your life with a girl like her would u?
2006-08-29 00:25:30 · answer #4 · answered by dede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the basis of any relationship. If u have lost that, plz look for someone else.
2006-08-29 00:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by A Kumar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never correct for anybody to use somebody else and if you are sure that your g/friend is using you then you should confront her and tell her how you are feeling if she still continues to use you then you should leave her.
2006-08-29 00:15:04 · answer #6 · answered by liongirl_40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her about your worries and problems.(Without hurting her feelings, because you may be wrong.) After that conversation, give her some time and see if things change.If it doesn't end the relationship(giving her reasons),if everything gets better,no problem..
Good luck..
2006-08-29 00:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say u should call it quits what is love with out trust it's nothing i don't know u should do what ur heart say and i think ur heart say to leave her it dosen't want to be hurt anymore i hope every thing gose good good luck O and i'm sorry about every thing
2006-08-29 00:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,don't worry!
It's normal thing today and many of us have this problem too
Do u need this love?
Do u like when someone use u?
It's geek and i think that people never change!
Just ask her why she did it to u!
But keep on funkin,don't make it double!
2006-08-29 00:15:32 · answer #9 · answered by woo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either get over it, realizing you're getting benefits out of the relationship too, or dwell on the inequities of it all and dump her.
2006-08-29 00:14:05 · answer #10 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋