I have found it relatively easy to have relationships which were great fun, but not quite right. I´m not that fussy at all, i just want someone who is honest, has an interesting mind and who doesn´t look too bad on the outside, thats all! But meeting people is not that easy i find, despite the fact i am reasonably attractive, has anyone tried speed-dating, does it work?
2006-08-29 00:09:52 · 24 answers · asked by vazza1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Right men are never easy to find becuase they are few and far between. Most men woo girl with an image of her lying naked in the bed and hence to separate weat from chaff is a difficult proposition for women. I think you should keep meeting people and listen to your heart, i am sure yoyu would know when you meet the right one. Please dont get into this speed dating stuff- its just a waste of time and involves many hurts to your ego and self esteem
2006-08-29 00:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mash 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I was in your shoes a few steps back. Same layout as well minus the boobs and plus and penis. The reason why meeting people you like is hard could be the fact that you have already met people you like. Maybe you should try looking a little closer to home. That guy that you always joke with, or have the same classes with, that remembers what you said about your family so many months ago, or is always ready to discuss the new episode of "The Office" or "Arrested Development", has been doing all of that because he wants to know you better, and wants to connect to you. I never noticed what I had with my "friend" until it was too late and we went our separate ways. Just remember that the reason that he makes you smile is to make you smile, he's there for you. I hope this helped, good luck with your life.
2006-08-29 00:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by binhducduong 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I really don't think that u should try speed dating. If ur attractive u will get the guy u want and he will certainly come to you baby girl. You might want to go for it but how many people have u dated and seemed interested in u?
If u can't find the right guy then this is not the option for you check it out whenever u want to ok. Try dating a friend if u want to or go out with him and try it out to see the things he likes about u.
2006-08-29 00:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by Shirley l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not being fussey is why you havent found the right man. Love happens when you least expect it, maybee if you just get on with life you will find love realy easily. Many women seem to want a guy whos got a good job a good car money and a house, but none of that matters. Its the person inside that maters.
2006-08-29 00:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by Jabba_da_hut_07 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi
I ensure u that we never could recognize someone (in marriage) is rightone or not! because it dependns on our emotions and charachtristics wich could not be khown easily in 1 or 2 or even more dates!
And also I ensure u that the lonely way to find the right person is to "leave it to the creator of emotions!" Just seek a pious man.
2006-08-29 00:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by masood_098@Y! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor.he trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover...A word to the wise ain't necessary -- it's the stupid ones that need the advice.
2006-08-29 00:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by Aliyu Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating is simple hunting, What do you like? then where do you go to find what you like. Its like this, You want a Smart Black guy go to the Jackson State University Campus and go to the Library, I am assurred that you will find one. It is all about location. You wouldn't fish for a whale in the neighbors pond would you?
2006-08-29 01:13:31 · answer #7 · answered by Legal Eagle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
finding the perfect partner is the hardest task in life. that's why there re so many single people and people who re unhappy in relationships. i haven't tried speed dating, but i tried internet dating - when i met a guy in chat or on dating site. i can tell u it sucked. no normal man has time for that bullshit - normal man is working hard to get wealthy. so i found my man in real life. he never chats on internet - he has no time for that
2006-08-29 00:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it could be just bad taste....but more than likely....guys conning you in believing they are what they are not......since you are asking about speed dating.....then I assume you are over 18, you have got little time to get to know someone in that time....so it will not be any easier to find the right guy....it is easy to pretend for a few minutes.........get to know someone well, and don't give in to them until you get to know them well, and feelings grow.....if they can't wait for 3-6 dates, then they aren't worth having......good luck
2006-08-29 00:20:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no speed dating doesnt work, and try looking in other places besides the places that men u dont quite like frequent.
2006-08-29 00:12:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋