Hi friends,
I am working in dubai, and I got married about a year ago. Now my wife is 8 months pregnant,I left her in India, bcos of financial problems...But, Now, I have a good Job, and I wanna bring her to dubai to live with me.after the delivery,
So, to take care of the child, I asked my mom to come along with her...
the problem is , she canot leave the house that easy, she got huge responsibilities.
So, They said, I can leave the child there and take only my wife wih me. is it advisable ?
Im really puzzled, someone please help me
2006-08-28 23:51:16 · 12 answers · asked by alexmaxjohn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
By the way, I am not selfish or anything.. I really really want my child to be here... But Im worried, about taking care of it when my wife is all alone in this strange city.
2006-08-29 00:56:22 · update #1
egads, don't do it!!!! Forget your mom and you and your wife take care of the baby.. do nt leave it behind, you may never see it again! Your wife is quite capable of caring for an infant I am sure...
2006-08-28 23:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by Mommadog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a very selfish man. Your wife is perfectly capable of taking care of the baby without your mother's help. What I hear is that you do not want your child with you and your wife. Your wife needs to be with the baby and they both need to be with you. How do you expect to know and love your child when you are separated by thousands of miles. Did you even ask your wife what she wanted? It does not sound like it which leads me to suspect you do not think too much of her either. Time for you to grow up and be a good husband and a good father. Remember that the baby is yours too.
2006-08-29 07:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the child??? Nothing or no one is more important than the child. Leave the wife and child both there until you grow the kind of heart you need to understand the tremendous overwhelming love you experience when you have a child.
2006-08-29 07:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seperating mother and child can cause a series of problems that won't be easily remedied. Mom may go through serious depression without her child and the child looses its most important bonding opportunities. You've got to find another way.
2006-08-29 06:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by mathmajor_30 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
NO, NO, NO!!! Not under any circumstances... Those first few months of that child's life are very important for the mother to be a part of otherwise how are they going to bond??? I suggest maybe your wife goes to stay with your mother until your mother can move too... You cannot do that to your wife or your child its not right...
2006-08-29 06:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Believe me your best bet is to have your wife and child staying with you,any other arrangemt undermine the mental stability of the child (this preference apply even when things are not going on well economically), you might not notice the implication immidiately untill when the child is fully grown, by then correction will not be possible. it is not wise to undermine natural sequence of things, God will see you thru managing resourses you have
2006-08-29 07:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by Jaid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't do this because a mother without child and child with out mother is incomplete so plz dont do this because the child who is without mother they cannot leave without mother love
2006-08-29 07:33:16 · answer #7 · answered by munmun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no the child should always be with his/her mother they need bonding between mother and child
2006-08-29 06:58:10 · answer #8 · answered by ME 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
nah dont do it. Seprating a mother from her child is like seprating the fishes from the sea. everyone needs a mom. Please i beg you dont do it.
2006-08-29 07:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by HKJ_zizou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO , don't seprate child at this little age , call back later to your wife with your child ,ok .please don't do any mistake of sepration of child .
2006-08-29 06:58:25 · answer #10 · answered by handsum025 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋