Sometimes very very bulshit problems will happen between us that can make us disquieted of each other for some days.We really love each other but the mistakes like that make me a bit scary of marriage... please who has or had same experience help me .
2006-08-28 23:38:13 · 10 answers · asked by freeman_1381 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Does she know you are planning to marry her? What if she doesn't want to?
2006-08-28 23:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by not_prfikt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a huge step and requires lots of maturity, understanding, giving, patience and loyalty just to name a few. It is not something to rush into. Being in love is in no way a criteria for success. Even in the best of conditions it is a daily process that constantly need your attention. The responsibilities are tremendous.
Take plenty of time to get to know each other and even more important...take time to know yourself. Lie down and take a good look at yourself from within. Determine what your goals are and if you don't have any you are already behind the eight ball.
Have fun first. Work on making each other laugh rather than jumping into such a serious state. Time will teach you a lot...use it wisely.
2006-08-29 06:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what love is for...To help you through the rough times. If there's not enough love and trust then the worry and the doubt comes in. Ask yourself if you really love this girl as much as you say you do. And if you find out that you're willing to go through misunderstandings, arguements etc. in a way to strengthen your relationship then you know that she's the one for you. Besides, you'll have this feeling of certainty that that girl is The One and you won't even have to question yourself.
2006-08-29 06:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by soulshaker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U Love each other n r going to get married.... Wats the problem zen? triffles come n go in relationships n u must mature to deal with it without having to cut off for days.. Grow up both of u and handle ur problems with maturity not kiddiness..
2006-08-29 06:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by Lovlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lack relationship skills and do not know the concept of functional behavior. You need to get some self-help books and decicate yourself to an emotional make over.
2006-08-29 06:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should wait for more time. so u can understand each other very well. such misunderstanding leads to severe crises in future so better u wait and rethink.
2006-08-29 06:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by slimshady3in 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a lot of bulshit problems now........keep looking. they will only get worse......
2006-08-29 06:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a common attitude among the lovers
2006-08-29 06:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by Rashil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you ready for such a commitment?
2006-08-29 06:43:03 · answer #9 · answered by really???? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just part of any relationship
2006-08-29 06:46:10 · answer #10 · answered by heat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋