we hav been dating for 2yrs now,we had a quarrel and he started having lots of gfs. he doubts me,he still tells me he loves me and i love him so much but wuldnt let me go.
2006-08-28 23:19:48 · 28 answers · asked by Moyo O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh my, you need to go out and start doing your own thing..... Doubting you as he says is just an excuse, move on with your life. He'll see, and perhaps in time if you are willing to forgive him, but I'd say get out of it now. If it has been 2 years, and has lots of girlfriends, IT"S NOT WORTH IT. I know it will hurt, but time heals. This doesn't sound like a realtionship that will work, it sems he is controling, and having the best of all worlds. You deserve better than that. Let go of the past, andmove to the present. Though you will have tough days. It's no tougher than knowing your boyfriend of 2 years constantly has girlfriend. In which probablly has you running in circles. Do yourself a favor and get out of it now. You are better than that!! ; )
2006-08-28 23:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by dreamer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry Moyo, but when you love someone, there no room for anyone else. If you really love this guys, you have to make him realize that, he doesn't really love those other women, or that he doesn't really love you. It is fantastic that you've found love, it really is, but love is something that can only be given, and only a lucky few of us get to receive it back. The truth of the matter is that someone you know loves you. You may know them or you may only meet them now and then, but they do love you. The choices you have are:
One: Keeping giving your love to this guy, and chance getting hurt or...
Two: Allow someone to love you, and chance getting a happy ending to your story
I hope this helped, good luck with your life.
2006-08-29 06:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by binhducduong 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He won't let you go? What are you chained in his basement or something? Walk away, have some self respect and dump this loser. There are men out there who will treat you with respect and fidelity, your b/f sounds like a jerk and I would dump him now, he does not love you, if he did he would not be seeing other girls, he just wants you for sex. Stand on your own 2 feet and walk away, let him see what he has lost.
2006-08-29 06:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hes with you AND another girl sorry but kick his sorry cheating *** to the curb.
If he loved you he wouldnt do that to you sorry he's screwing you over your confidence will or may already be suffering you deserve SO SO SO much better.
Tell him if he loved you he would show it.
He is controlling you by "not LETTING " you go
Sweetie get someone who deserves you and who realises you are plenty for then and they dont need or want anyone else.
GO for it
Best of luck
2006-08-29 06:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by rosa_govan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just sounds like its hard for him to let go... i guess if a relationship goes bad then it goes bad... him going out with other girls is out of the question. if he wants any other girl but you drop him u can find a guy that treats you better than that. its hard to just kind of say bye after 2 years... but seriously this guy is cheating on you like no other. start getting angry. dump his ***. never look back and if you do know that theres a guy out there that will treat you better. and for sure make you happier. and if not... then theres always the prospect of going back to him.
2006-08-29 06:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by XitachiX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the loser. He is only keeping you hanging on so if one of his new girlfriends gives him the flick, he will have you. Life is too short to be hanging on to this loser. With friends and laughs you will find someone else. And if he did eventually take you back, how do you know he won't do it again. Another two years, wasted. Be brave and cut him out of your life.
2006-08-29 06:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by suga mama 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has moved on to other girlfriends, he's not worth dating. There are other guys out there and in my opinion, the reason he tells you he still loves you is that it keeps him in control. I think that if you love someone enough, you'll have no problems staying with them and them only.
2006-08-29 06:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by Seraphim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him! If he can treat you like this he's not worth it. He has no consideration for your feelings.
If he's dating other girls, he's not your boyfriend anymore.
Go and find someone who is ready for a mature relationship. He obviously isn't.
Good luck, I know its hard! Been there.
2006-08-29 06:39:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is dating lots of OTHER girls, you should let HIM go. Its time to move on to someone else who will treat you better. Best wishes!
2006-08-29 06:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by Paul H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes dating other girls, he doesnt love you as much as he says he does. It'll be tough but you have to let him go
2006-08-29 06:38:37 · answer #10 · answered by kit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋