we hav been dating for 2yrs now,we had a quarrel and he started having lots of gfs. he doubts me,he still tells me he loves me and i love him so much but wuldnt let me go.
2006-08-28 23:15:31 · 23 answers · asked by Moyo O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
duh, get another boyfriend that should put an end to it all. He wants his cake and eat it too.
2006-08-28 23:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by really???? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your BF sounds like he is not being honest with you nor does he care about you or he would not be risking your health by having all those other girlfriends ...
you have a very serious health risk with someone who is being so sexually active not to mention that he wants his cake and eat it to ...( all the women he can handle from the sounds of it )
and from the way I read your note here your not being honest with yourself. If it was a relationship that was ment to be he would not be doing this to you. You say you love him ?? But in effect isn't not the "him" that was before and not the man that he has turned out to be ?
Look into your heart you deserve far better then what he is offering you dear .. I wish you all the best and tons of happiness ..
2006-08-28 23:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by MrsDave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let yourself go. For him to have other women while he punish you is a cheap trick and intentional abuse. You simply cannot allow it. I know its difficult to let go but you must. His actions are totally unfair and if he truly cared he would not resort to this dehumanizing method.
Gather your dignity and concentrate on regaining your self respect. He is using you and your feelings to take advantage you in the worst way. His character is despicable. Who is he to be so cold hearted and dole out this type of disrespectful punishment.
If you did anything wrong then so be it. Learn from that mistake and move on. What if you make another mistake? What will he do then...sleep with another woman while you watch and cry?
He is being a jerk. Better you know now. Step back and get to know yourself all over again, regain your self assurance and retain your self value. Start to love yourself again and do not let any man rule your life.It does not belong to him. "To thine own self be true".
2006-08-28 23:35:11 · answer #3 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to figure out for yourself if this relationship is worth it.
Regardless of the trigger point, if a guy looks outside for another relationship and does not work with you is a bad sign.
If you decide to work on this relationship, you have to lay down the ground rules with him.
On the other hand, if he is simply socializing with people and not into relationship with them. It might be simply a cool down period for both of you. He could be simply having time off to check his priorities.
If so, there is still a chance that both of you can work things out.
2006-08-28 23:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by soartoheaven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if he broke up with you and is seeing other girls he HAS let you go You just wont let go. And if he is seeing other girls why would you want him? You need to love yourself enough to know when to walk and honey if I was you I would start running.And if he loves u so much why is he dating other women?
2006-08-28 23:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by queeniez71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He broke up with you, has lots of girls and doubts YOU? Dump him, dump him now! He's using you and you'll end up pregnant or worse if you stay with him.
You can do MUCH better. Other guys will be happy to be with you!
Good luck!
2006-08-28 23:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys
2016-03-26 23:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now the decision lies with you...he refuse to let you go of cos! Which men will say no to one more gal to have sex with? I know you love him, but gal..please face the reality..This relationship is not going anywhere..He's just taking you as a ragged doll..or a sex toy...
Sorry to say, i hate this kind of men...Leave him to survive and to stop all your sufferings....
2006-08-29 00:00:46 · answer #8 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u can't let him have u and the other girls at the same time. U have to tell him to chose either u or the other not both... Greedy boy!!!!!
2006-08-28 23:26:00 · answer #9 · answered by Lovlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are an ideal woman.
what a man seeks, above all else, is someone who really loves him, and who allows him to have sex with anyone he wants, but he can pretend not to have any regard for, and dump at will
basically you are a doormat and, ideally, he wants you to carry on being a doormat
2006-08-28 23:27:16 · answer #10 · answered by Vinni and beer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
about all that you can do is join him for a threesum!!
that or get a life......he has moved on and you have not!!!
picture this.....man and women in love holding hands under the moonlight on a sandy beach....
and he says....honey i love you!!! i only like all the other girls i bang.........
i bet your friends have the answer to this........ask them......your beeing played.
its called keeping one on the string.......just incase you are in need of a good time.
2006-08-28 23:22:02 · answer #11 · answered by rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋