I'm not in any relationship but i have very close friends who i kiss and smulch. I don't want to date any coz i feel it won't work out or something and i don't want to hurt any of them. Plz , i need your advice on how to tackle my problem.
2006-08-28 22:58:02 · 9 answers · asked by genipabu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe that it is not right to kiss or have any relationship out of the normal with your friends! it is your friends and nothing more nothing less! i think you should find someone who cares about you and loves you! Not from your friends!
2006-08-28 23:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason why you are in a very close relationship with your friends, is that you want someone else to have that kind of connection that you have with your friends. The problem is that you have years, and too much history together to allow your feelings to go through to your friends. You have two choices:
One: Find someone, who is like your friends so you can have that same connection without the weirdness of so many years of friendship or...
Two: Realize your feelings for your friends and finally talk to them about it. Think about the reasons why you kiss them, why you hang out with them, and why they bring that little smile or the crazy laugh that only they can make you do. Once you have those reasons, you can get past the whole friends ordeal, and find the person who has always been there for you. Your relationship with the person won't change by the way, you'll still hang out, go to the mall, listen to music, or what ever, you'll just be doing it for each other instead of for yourself from now on, and you'll feel great.
I hoped this helped, good luck with your life.
2006-08-28 23:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by binhducduong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
m' sorry but i think ur a flirt..
sometimes its gud to do some flirting but mind you
"dont ever flirt with your real friends"
..you might lose them.. just want to say that you must set limitations in everything you do..even if it really makes you happy..because everything that is over done is really a mess!!
..ok???and give respect to your self.
2006-08-28 23:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by yellow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,i guess this is not just friendship,its something more cos we dont kiss n smooch our friends n if u are doing it without any feelings you might lose a good friend....
2006-08-28 23:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go freeway, date with them without loving them rendomly.
2006-08-28 23:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by Ashok 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come over here i'll give you some nuts.
2006-08-28 23:03:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
juts tell them how you feel
2006-08-28 23:02:28 · answer #7 · answered by chrisp972000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to god & ask forgivness
2006-08-28 23:11:27 · answer #8 · answered by maro_koko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have meaningless sex instead.......you're welcome!
2006-08-28 23:00:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋