I have been seeing this girl for several years but every so often she acts like she could care less. Recently I took her and her son (he's 15) along with my niece (she is 15 also) to an amusement park I got the kids a walkie talkie and figured they would go do whatever and me and my girlfriend would do what we wanted, well to make a long story short she took off with the kid and left me sitting by myself all day!! like I said she has done this before if there is anyone else along I feel like a 3rd wheel so how should I handle this situtation?
2006-08-28 22:37:23 · 12 answers · asked by flyfisherman_46 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To begin with, tell HER how you feel when she does this. She may not even realise she is making you uncomfortable. Communication is the key.
2006-08-28 22:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by not_prfikt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's that your going at this from the wrong angle. A great way to get a single parent or even just a single is to go for their friends or kids. Get to know them better, and they will put in a good word for you. She may really love her child, and I good way to show that you love her would be to be part of the family, once they can't live with out you, they won't. Just remember to not come on too strong to the kid, you might be mistaken for creepy or a child molester. Instead just act the way you have always acted, but just remember to help out around the house, with cleaning up, or maybe just buy the son a gift. The mom will obviously warm up to you instantly when she sees that she can trust you to be around the kid. She probably wants to find someone that will be a good rolemodel for him. Play catch with the kid and do dad stuff. If she can see you in a father role, she will see you in a lover role. I hope this helped, good luck with your life.
2006-08-29 05:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by binhducduong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of this loser. She is using you big time. I'm sure you will find someone nice out there. Go to hotornot.com for some leads.
2006-08-29 05:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by marcus p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, talk to her straight and get to know her true feelings and tell her your true feelings too...and if she considers you just a friend then look for someone rather than wasting your time behind someone who does not care
2006-08-29 06:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously she think ur "just friends" but even so that was RUDE as hell! i think u need to reevaluate ur "relationship" and decide do u wann b treated this way or do u just want her around to say u havea female friend??
2006-08-29 05:42:35 · answer #5 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the relationship is hurting you better you call it off or allow it to cool off
2006-08-29 05:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by trishul60 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's using you and doesn't have what it takes to tell you that she is not interested in you.
2006-08-29 05:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pls leave her and move on she's not worth the sweat
2006-08-29 06:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by babygal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop her, why wasting your time on someone who dont care about you?
2006-08-29 05:42:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her about it, she is the only one that really knows her motives.
2006-08-29 05:51:49 · answer #10 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋