2006-08-28 22:36:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
You really shouldn't hit your children in order to relieve your stress, it's called CHILD ABUSE if you do...
2006-08-28 22:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Pie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't "whoop my kids hard" , but I believe in punishment, and there are certain crimes in my house that constitute a spanking. I'm telling you though, that it doesn't relieve my stress.. all it does is make me feel bad. I don't want to hurt my kids.. and while a spanking from me never hurts more than their feelings.. I still feel bad after, because I hurt them in any way.
2006-08-29 10:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by Imani 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When my children were small, like 3-4 i would spank them if they did something they knew was wrong but i never felt bad about it at all because i was teaching them that if you do something wrong there will be a price to pay for it. But now my children are past the age to spank them so i instead take away there t.v or game system or no phone or friends if they mess up. They are pretty good kids so i don't have to punish them that often, maybe it was all that spanking i did when they were children.
2006-08-29 05:56:40 · answer #3 · answered by sincity usa 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
there is a difference between whoop and disipline, whoop is when you abused your child that realy hurts your child. disipline is when you teach your child a lesson, maybe your child learns by taking some of his toys away or maybe grounding him or you might have to spank him not so hard that it leaves any marks but just so he know he did something wrong. remember all children learn differently. disipling your children shoudnt relived you of stress there not punching bags. there kids, remember there children so they will make mistakes.
2006-08-29 10:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by Lori T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I never hit my kids. Never. If they do something bad, I take away a priviledge or send them to bed.
If you are hitting kids to relieve your own stress, you need to learn how to deal with your own emotions in a positive way.
2006-08-29 05:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by baggyk 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't. I tried it once, and felt sick with guilt afterwards. Stressed, and sick. Never again. I mean, I wouldn't like it if someone whupped on me whenever I messed up. Adults don't put up with it, so I don't think that children should have to.
2006-08-29 05:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt be hitting kids to release stress. if this is the case then u need help managing stress
2006-08-29 05:43:41 · answer #7 · answered by ding 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
People who do that should be relieved of their kids.
2006-08-29 05:42:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋