1) from a girl
2) after 3days non-stop lovey sex,
3) had a huge misunderstanding day without talking for hours...so I want to tell him I do care for him. He thought I was using him for that day, and was pulling himself out from me.
Do guys get uneasy with a girl says "I'm falling in love with you" after 2 months? Does this mean the same with "I love you", cuz I noticed that's a huge thing here?
(I'm Asian, still learning about love culture in UK)
2006-08-28 22:18:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm saying it's a cultural thing, because I don't understand the word "I love you" being something huge, since we don't have the same understanding to that word.
So if I've said "I'm falling in love" in a very early stage, that might tense things up...?
2006-08-28 22:30:02 · update #1
We have just agreed to start a relationship.
2006-08-28 22:34:30 · update #2
Love is a strong emotion that is not easily identified. Actually one does not really know (especially after just 3 days of physical closeness) if they are in love or not. You have to give yourself time and you certainly don't want to prejudge your feelings with making that type of announcement. Do you know how he feels? This is not meant to hurt you but the possibility is very strong that sex is his primary interest with you.
At any rate, always use caution when it comes to the "L" word. Do not let infatuation or lust cloud your judgment. Also take a good deep look at the person you are involved with. I mean really take a GOOD look.
Sex and love are entirely two different things and it takes maturity, knowledge and experience to know the difference.
His reaction should be a good eye opener for you. Better to know whats going on now than later. Take it slow. Don't be in a hurry to fall in love. Believe me its not all peaches and cream...even if you are lucky enough to have the man of your dreams.
Take time to know and love yourself first.
2006-08-28 22:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the same every where in the world. How its presented may differ from culture to culture. The thing to remember is RESPECT! If you don't got it, then you don't have Love in its true state! Playing is one thing, falling in Love is another. Know what you are feeling before you tell him that. Consider all the avenues and above all, make sure he is on the same wave as you. Don't be a fool and throw yourself to him, just to find out that he is in for the ride and nothing more. Thanks for asking. Aloha from Hawaii
2006-08-29 05:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by rechsteiner1986 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him how you really feel about him. If he is into you then he won't have a problem expressing those feelings back. They key here is to communicate with him and hear what made him so upset about the whole thing and why? Then tell him how much you love him and then there will be a happy ending to all of this.
2006-08-29 05:26:11 · answer #3 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what the misunderstanding was about. if it was minore and you feel like you have some feelings left for him tell him that.
it think after 2 month it`s a little bit too soon to say that you`re allready falling in love.
find a better aproach like: you dindn`y use him you really like him and expressed it.tell him that you want to hang out some more
2006-08-29 05:30:39 · answer #4 · answered by stohark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has nothing to do with love culture and do not say "i'm falling in love with you" if you do not truly feel it. Show him that you care and that you did not use him and that you do still want to stay with him but never say something if you do not truly feel it.
If you truly feel that you are falling in love with this guy, then yes, tell him about your feelings and show him that you care.
2006-08-29 05:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by trushka 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm falling in love with you is okay, especially after tons of sex...that says 'keep doing what you're doing' Saying 'I love you'? I dunno maybe hold onto that one for a while, but after two months isn't so bad if you guys are really having a whirlwind type relationship.
In my limited experience the faster somebody says "I love you" the faster they'll say "I'm in love with somebody else. Sorry!"
2006-08-29 05:30:04 · answer #6 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no most of the time UK guys only want u to lay on the bed
2006-08-29 05:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by silver 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i think its ok since u guys have been togather for some time although not quite long but i think u both know tat u like each other....why not go ahead if u really like him.... gd luck ... ;)
2006-08-29 05:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by SexyPrincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like ur a real nice person and the person ur dating is a so and so
2006-08-29 05:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by harry 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him what you feel in your heart.
2006-08-29 05:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by not_prfikt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋