What´s worse?

Question

Having a boyfriend or girlfriend you barely get to see or having no boyfriend or girlfriend at all? I guess it would depend on how strong the relationship is huh? But ok, so um, if you´re havin a long distant relationship, you think its goin okay, cuz everytime you talk, you get along fine…but you only get to talk for so long…so does that mean your relationship is not as strong as you would like to think it is..or could it survive just fine even if it takes years to gap the distance? Bit of a funny question, I know, I hope you don’t mind though. I´d appreciate any and all answers though. Thank you. :)

Answer 1

i know it is tough...really tough...it take both of u to really love, trust,have faith with each other....your pain just as same as me...my boyfriend and i having the long distant relationship...we don't meet,talk,get together often,,, sometimes i feel i don't have a boyfriend but still i love him.. if u have problems with him or her, i say talk to him...tell him how u feel about him..know it's really tough...but it's worth it if u love him

Answer 2

I've never been in a long distance relationship, but I do know (from others) that it's hard to maintain a relationship like that. If you really love each other then it can work, sometimes it's good to take a break and see what else is out there as well. You seem to just like the idea of being able to say you have someone instead of no one at all. Take a really good look at what you're involved in and if you need to take some time for you then do so. Don't waste your time in a relationship that you really don't want to be in. Hope I've been of some help.

Good Luck.

Answer 3

Having a long distance relationship is like having no relationship at all or living a fantasy, coz u talk 4 long and believe all is well but wen u take out time and make efforts to close the gap there might not be anybody over there but somebody else's spouse. Pls b careful and watch out!

Answer 4

I my self have just started a long distance relationship 3 weeks ago. I feel it is going to work. We talk every day and have so much in common. We are getting to see each other every other weekend. We are 3 hours apart. I believe you have to take each day as it comes, no one can predict what tomorrow will bring. If it is meant to be, it will work out. If not, then it is better to have love and lost, than never to have loved at all. Remember, abstinence makes the heart grow fonder.

Answer 5

rather its a long distance or a short distance really isnt what makes one in a relationdship. Its what both of you feel for one another. The gap closes as the relationship grows

Answer 6

True love can survive the gap in time and distance. If you are wondering maybe you need to move on.

Answer 7

I highly doubt you're in love but in infatuation. You need to be serving this person and being around them and getting to know them.
I wouldn't count on a long-distance relationship lasting very long, or one where the members don't see each other often.

Answer 8

both are bad as they are.I have had to deal with a long distance relationship and i can tell you for sure it was stressin on me.No matter how much i trusted that we'll be together forever i couldn't continue with it.so i just walked out of the relationship.
Ineed to see my girfriend/boyfriend anytime imiss them so like im not for long distant relationshps just be far enough for me to miss you and close enough for me to see you.

Answer 9

hi there. c the basic fact behind every surival of relationship is trust and understanding.. so if the relationship is valued truly then distance can never be barrier

Answer 10

Well, I'd say that having no one at all is worse. Despite distances there are still going to be issues to deal with and I just don't thrive well on my own.