There's this guy who I went out once and after that I kind of stood him up cause he was acting like a jerk. I apologized and explained why I did that (which I think is justifible, but I'm sure he doesn't).
I have been see him at this dance venue and we just nod/smile at each other. He has been trying to make me jealous by dancing right in front of me with other girls in a sexual manner. Last time, I just sat there and didn't move and watched other people dance. I didn't look at him or give him any attention.
It;s the right thing to do, isn't it? What would you do?
I kinda like him, but have extreme problms communicating and he's always trying to be the 'cool' guy who dances with all the babes.
2006-08-28 21:58:20 · 12 answers · asked by bestwomanberry 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignore him. Do not respond to his childish games. He will eventually leave you alone when he cannot get the reaction he expected.
2006-08-28 22:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by not_prfikt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignoring him is good...or you can even smile on occasion. He has issues though and is lacking in maturity. I suspect you are more advanced in the maturity level and should keep your distance.
I suggest a casual friendship.
He is performing like a jerk and does not need any encouragement.
2006-08-29 05:10:39 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IGNORE HIM! IF you react then you might as well throw yourself under a bus. The best reaction is NO REACTION, turn about is also fair play, dance your *** off and flirt like a little vixen! It gets em every time! They go nuts!
2006-08-29 05:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's always going to be that way, and you'll always be asking yourself if you should just ignore it, or find another way to deal. If it bothers you now, move on...odds are, he's a jerk and he'll stay that way.
2006-08-29 05:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he DOES sound like a jerk... next time he dances in front of you, but in and ask the girl to dance... :D
of whisper in his ear that the girl is hot and you wouldn't mind a 3some... then go do your own thing... ;)
2006-08-29 05:02:50 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're already doing the right thing by ignoring his behavior.
2006-08-29 05:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by Nena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like an insecure guy. and he likes attention. i would not date someone like that as I feel that these kind of guys are really immature. if he truly feels something for you, he would do everything in his power to win you back and not try to make you jealous.
2006-08-29 05:03:36 · answer #7 · answered by trushka 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st rule- NEVER LET EM SEE U SWEAT!!! no matter if he's playing tonsil hockey on the table in front of you...just act like u dont see him....but if u do like him like you say....tell him that you like him but you're not feelin his attitude....if he's trying to make you jealous then he probably likes you too....
2006-08-29 05:03:44 · answer #8 · answered by kuntry_guhl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the boy that you said about him doesn`t have any love or emotional thing in his life to develop.
2006-08-29 05:08:01 · answer #9 · answered by reso_pir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him, he's an idiot. Besides, why would you want to be with someone who enjoys making a fool of you.
2006-08-29 05:12:55 · answer #10 · answered by gipsy_queen99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋