This guy and I went to a weekend trip together, had sex for first time after dating for 2 months, and had a great time.
But after that first night, I realized he doesn't talk that much.
After our first time, he was trying to have sex everytime we were in bed.
He asked me to stay at his place after we went back, but I head home. After we parted, I realized that the train wasn't working for the whole day!
I phoned him up and asked him if I could stay.
In my rules, 3 days togheter is too much in the first part of a relationship. I've crossed that line, broke my rules.
He was excited but when I said I really needed to go back but I couldn't, and I was giving space, not being intimate at all, he gave me a huge space too, and we weren't talking at all...we were so distance in a day...very awkward silence.
But when I called him, we said he had a great time, thought I was pushing him away.
So how do you try to make up after having a too much time with your bf or gf?
2006-08-28 21:48:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WOW! you are one calculating little person. Real relationships, the ones that work, the ones were people actually love one another, they happen because there are no rules. And you certainly can't spend too much time with your lover, or try to cool things down after sex. It should be non stop sex for at least three months!
Hope you find happiness, but i doubt you will until you open up a little.
It isn't a competition or a game.
2006-08-28 21:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
everyone needs space and once a guy gets sex they want to do it all the time its just the way they are
just tell him what you want from him
If you want my honest advice to many rules will Chase away any relationship even good ones maybe try and drop some of the rules relax and have fun
2006-08-28 21:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by someone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he most probably felt used that you did not want to stay more with him after a weekend together but then just becuase you did not find a train you phoned him up... maybe that is why he did not talk much.
2006-08-28 21:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know!
Advice for you! Question aways comes first, then you type a small comment without putting a question at the end of it! You get better results!
2006-08-28 21:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to fake illness. To say you need time would upset him maybe. Just act ill and see him in a few days :) Trust it works
2006-08-28 23:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at what happened in Brokeback Mountain.
2006-08-28 22:04:05 · answer #6 · answered by lhm1968 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mutural understanding and a little bit compromise
2006-08-28 21:53:41 · answer #7 · answered by early worm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
great lovers do not talk or make noises to prove how good they are in shagging
2006-09-01 19:23:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with bob.
2006-08-28 22:52:27 · answer #9 · answered by megan a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋