ok, i know this guy...and no i dont like him =p....but he likes me. I have tried, in many nice ways as possible to give him the hint that i dont like him, but all he seems to do is not see it!....I dont pick up his phone calls when he calls me every night *sighs*, i avoid him everytime he tries and asks me to go out AND there is a 7 year gap between me and him.(The reason why i find this awkard is that because Im still in Highschool) Why does he have to make it like he doesnt understand!...it pisses me off even more!!...what can i do (in a nice way) to tell him im not interested?!?
2006-08-28 21:43:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ive tried talking to him nicely....and if i do it any longer...he would think i like him
2006-08-28 21:51:06 · update #1
Hey you can just tell him ur involved with another guy or ur just taken..if he doesn't get this, just tell one of ur guy friends to pretend to be ur BF n tell the guy to buzz off!!!
2006-08-28 22:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are just obsessive and won't let a little thing like reality stand in the way of chasing the object of their desire. Be polite, but be blunt. Don't beat around the bush or be overly tactful about it because he'll probably think you're just playing hard to get. If telling him directly that you're not interested doesn't deter him, then basically call him out to everyone you know as the creepy older guy stalking you so that the power of public shaming can work its wonders.
2006-08-29 04:57:17 · answer #2 · answered by Winter Arcane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worse thing to do in this situation would be to lie or make up and excuse not to be with him, because that could lead to further complications like him trying to solve your problems. What you want to do is think to yourself why you can't see yourself with him, then weigh it against what reasons you could see yourself with him (even if you don't want to be). Finally don't pick up one of his call but call him yourself to show that you are in control and you mean business. Next do what I like to call a compliment sandwich. You proceed to tell him, a reason why you two should go out, why not, followed by why again, and just keep going until you run out. After which, you tell him that the reasons why not are just too much for you too to work. Tell him that no matter how much he tries, he can't change those facts. The truth is no matter how much we like to think so, people never change. Although, I have to warn you, after you weigh the reason you could and couldn't go out with him, you might find yourself with a different opinion. I hope this helps, good luck with your life.
2006-08-29 04:56:27 · answer #3 · answered by binhducduong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u said u tried the nice way to make him stop calling and trying to hunt u down right!ok sorry in this case u should think in asking him with a strong tone that u r so young and that he is so much older than u and u r in high school and ned focus on ur studies or u'll fail!tell him to stop calling u or u'llmake ur parents answer his calls and wil deal with him so to stop right now is better than make a scene or make ur dad make him stop in a rude way that is better to make him stop or u should tell ur parents about cos he sems to be that it is an attitude of a guy who never respect the privacy and his limits and afraid that he is not loving u or anything he want something else so be aware and be carefull cos guys like him sometimes can attack when can't take what they want so if he didn't agree to stop calling and harrase u max for a week after u tell him stop go ahead to ur parents and tell what is going on and about that guy and they'll deal with him hope that helps:).
2006-08-29 04:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by joe m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys weren't made with the understanding...they were given more of the physical things like strength and alot of hormones...NOW women on the other hand have alot of mental attributes such as understanding..we learn and understand where guys just pretend to understand hoping that it works on getting them laid..thats all they care about!!! Thats why they shouldn;t of been born with two heads..they think with the wrong one!!
2006-08-29 04:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its because your being nice
Don"t be nice tell him to stop harassing you
If he does not stop then he may need parental intervention
Your dad could say to him to leave his daughter alone
He sounds a little unhealthy
2006-08-29 05:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by Eric C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TEXT HIM ...SAYING...."OMG SO ANNOYING...DONT CALL ME...DO I KNOW YOU?...DO I NEED TO KNOW YOU?....DO I WANT TO KNOW YOU.?....NOOOOOOO" AND LEAVE IT AT THAT...GET A NEW SIM FOR YOUR PHONE THEYRE ONLY ABOUT A FIVER...OR JUST CALL UP AND CHNAGE YOUR NUMBER...OR T-MOBILE PHONES HAVE AN OPTION WERE YOU CAN BLOCK NUMBERS...SO ITLL AUTOMATICALLY GO TO VOICEMAIL...AS HE CALLS...GOOD LUCK...AND DONT BE NICE TO HIM...YOU CAN LAUGH AND ACULLI BE RUDE HELL NO YOUR NOT KIDDING...AND HELL JUST LEAVE YOU ALONE PRETENDING HE DOESNT CARE ANYMORE
2006-08-29 04:50:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say get a boyfriend so he cant ask you and if he does tell him you are happy in your relationship
2006-08-29 04:46:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 years gap... tell him you're gonna throw his as$ in jail
2006-08-29 04:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by tsar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol u have to admire his persistance.
2006-08-29 04:59:25 · answer #10 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋