I blush all the time, especially when a guy gives me a compliment, or when he is affectionate toward me, how can I stop this?
2006-08-28 21:20:53 · 12 answers · asked by LalaLola 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been told its a 'fight or flight' reaction in the brain-- blushing is when your brain releases a bunch of adrenaline just as though you were frightened, but since you dont 'startle' or run, all of the excess energy and blood pressure has nowhere to go (no muscles) and it shows up on the face as a blush. (where the skin is fairer and thinner, even though the pressure is raised everywhere. thats why men's ears can turn pink- thin skin)
So some stimulus which proves fearful, exciting, or somehow upsetting/provocative in a general sense of the word can cause it. SO perhaps you are nervous, self-conscious, afraid? Shocked by the compliments, come-ons?
This doesnt sound easy, but be less self-conscious, and it will greatly decrease, or try to remain calmer; dont get scared by situations or yourself when in front of a guy- I know how nerve-recking it can be.
I used to blush a lot more, and still can if I get attention focused on me. If I keep my sights on the bigger picture, not just myself, I am less nervous and blush less.
2006-08-30 11:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by Yentl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was like you before, blushing every time a guy says sweet words to me, or he offers a date, which becomes kinda irritating on my part.
Learn to control your emotions. I do not blush that much now. I just pretend that nothing happened (or nothing's happening) and charan, no blushing.
2006-08-29 04:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by hiei lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blushing is a good thing. don't try to overcome it. only prostitute doesn't blush. guys like the girl which blushes more.
2006-08-29 04:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with it. Personally I think it's adorable. Keep on blushing!
2006-08-30 00:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want not to blush? It's a turn on for guys.. It makes guys wanna grab you and kiss you... Believe me its true....
2006-08-29 06:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by Teejay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with the blushing, that gets guys HOT!!!
2006-08-29 04:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the time of compliment or affection, think of something gross like pigs feet or zombies or zombies eating pigs feet!! Viola!! No more red cheeks!!! ^______^
2006-08-29 04:26:02 · answer #7 · answered by Confused 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i blush easy to i wanna know how not to aswell
2006-08-29 04:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by Taylor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, don't try to cure it. it's actually makes you more attractive. don't change a thing. (are you blushing?)
2006-08-29 17:57:16 · answer #9 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant...its impossible...its a mental reation...ur brain causes the physical outburst....i wont get completely psychological on u cause u prob wont understand all the words
2006-08-29 04:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by sangwhich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋