Is it normal???

Question

I am 24 & married for 6 months. The problem is that, sometimes during intercourse my vagina gets filled with a fluid & when my husband moves his penis to & fro inside my vagina there is a peculiar sound.....like splashing of water in a pool. Is this normal?
I am worried because, my husband tells that it's because my vagina is large and flexible. The liquid in my vagina is not semen. i know this because, this happens before my husband has his orgasm! He is suspecting that I had conceived before marriage. I was a virgin untill marriage and never even mastrubated. Then why this problem? please advice...........

Answer 1

ha ha ha! Ofcourse is normal! That sounds are the results of a very vaginal liqiud debit! Be happy, other girls have so a few liquid that you can not sitck anything there!

Answer 2

I'm sorry that your husband is being so mistrusting and judgemental. When you tell him the truth, he should believe you.

Your vagina is flexible but it's probably about the same size as every other woman's vagina. Although of course vaginas come in slightly different shapes sizes and lengths.

The fluid is a completely normal part of becoming aroused and nothing to worry about, so is the lengthinging, swelling and softening of the vulva. The squleching sound is simply the sound of air being forced into your vagina as your husband thrusts. This is happening because you are very aroused and a seal is not forming around his penis which is probably slighlty smaller than average.

If the noise bothers either of you, try a different position such as him on top but put your legs together to create a better seal around his penis.

You could also try some PC muscle exercises clenching and relaxing the muscle you use to hold back urine (but not when you need to pee) to tighten the vaginal muscles. Masturbation has the same affect.

Not masturbating has caused this problem to some extent because your muscles are weaker than they should be if you had exercised them frequently. Have plenty of sex with your husband and get him to stimulate your clitoris and you will soon find that the muscles tighten up.

Answer 3

This seems rather normal to me. Some women (in my experience) are more likely to be wet, and the noise goes along with the wetness. Your husband should be more creative and try different angles to avoid the sound. One boring angle over and over will cause the same sound. Also, I've experienced a woman who seemed larger inside than others, or so it seemed. Again, experimenting with different positions seems to help this situation. He should be happy that you are wet and flexible! That's a sign that you're turned on. When a woman is dry and stiff, she's not really in the mood. After five years, he might be missing these "wet" days. Good luck.

Answer 4

perfectly normal for women to experience wet splashes in the vagina during sex. Actually, this is a sign that you are really turned on... so much so that your fluids have gone a little out of control.

It may be hormonal if it's not the above, so see your Gynaechologist and get some professional advice... it's nothing to be embarrassed about.

Answer 5

I would go see your gyn in case there is a problem but I doubt what your husband is saying is the cause of this - how mean is he :o(

Though - all women should do kegel exercises which tighten up down there - it is contracting those same muscles that you use when you stop the flow of pee pee (haha :o) They keep everything nice and tight - very very and men love it. You can use them during sex and clench them, etc - so read the link below and do them every day and see if there is a difference. But - I would also see a gynecologist and let her know to outrule any possible problems.

:o)

Answer 6

It is perfectly normal, right before intercourse the vagina does get lubricated, this fluid contains substances that neutralize the acidity in the genitourinary tract, and not to mention lubrication of the same , it has important physiological role to play, I suggest you take ur husband and urself to a doctor who will explain everything properly to both u and ur ignorant husband,

Answer 7

There's no problem. What is happening is that you are getting aroused and your vagina naturally lubricates itself. It's not actually "filling up with fluid", but it does sound that way. You're normal....it has nothing to do with the size of your vagina. Relax!

Answer 8

You are probably one of those that produces a lot of lubricating fluid when you are sexually aroused. There is nothing wrong with you and you should not worry too much. Some Man in fact find this very sexy although there are some who finds that if there are too much lubricant there is less sensation. Whatever it is your husband should not blame you. Virginity has nothing to do with this.

Answer 9

This perfectly normal,the liquid means that you are very turned on.When a man is turned on he has something called pre-***.If you did not have this vaginal liquid then sexual intercourse would be a bit painful as it would be very dry around your vagina.Just enjoy and don`t worry,congrats for getting married and i presume your also expecting so congrats for that too.If your still a little worried you could always see your GP or midwife on a regular visit.....Good luck.

Answer 10

Dont worry its normal the liquid is a type of lubrication your body makes when your enjoying yourself and your having sex.And the noise is normal to but sometimes 4 us girls abit embarrising! Take care x

Answer 11

Its normal. Your body is just producing its own natural lubrication when you get arroused.

If you are concerned about your vagina being large try the following link for pelvic floor excersices. He'll appriciate it and it works wonders if you do them during sex too!

http://www.continence-foundation.org.uk/docs/pelvwom.htm