Well I got this chick pregnant,atleast i strongly think she is!! well i got her pregnant cuz it seemed that haveing a kid was the only way me and her were going to be together cuz her parents hate me...and now she keeps lieing to me and not tellin me stuff,like when guys flirt with her and kiss her...she always says "she forgets" and in relationships both ppl should tell each other everything and discuss it with each other..yet now im seeing shes not who i wnana be with and i dunnno what to do....
2006-08-28 20:43:44 · 10 answers · asked by roy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Step up and be a man, what else can you do? If there is a baby it needs a daddy, especially if mommy is a psycho. So be there for your child and try to deal with the chick whether you stay together or not. Remember--It is not the child's fault that the two of you made innappropriate choices at such a young age. Good luck!
2006-08-28 20:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by Balou0017 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this was no way out to be together... sorry!! getting the girl pregnant just because her parents hate you?! Now they will hate you even more and the kid will grow in a very tense atmosphere... do you really want that for your child?
Also, she does not seem a very serious girl if she is having your child and goes around flirting with other guys and letting them kis
s her! You should seek counselling, maybe at this point, since you do not think she is the right person to spend your life with, even suggest abortion and both of you can walk away for a separate life.
If this girl does want to stay with you and keep the baby, she has to stop kissing other guys! set an ultimatum and tell her so. You are not a fool to be played around with. Stand up for your rights guy and don't let her step all over you!
2006-08-29 03:58:14 · answer #2 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...getting her pregnant to be with her...even if her parents did hate you... big decision. (Remember- It only matters what you two think- not what anybody else tells you)
But you did....so if she's not wanting to talk to you- she might just want to have an abortion and forget about the whole thing.
Or she's worried you'll freak out or something and leave her - if she wants to keep it.
You should just let her know you are there for her and care for her.
Unless you've totally decided to leave her- and then you should just leave her, while she still has the chance to have an abortion if she wants it.
If you want to stay friends after all this-
you should talk to her- let her know how you are feeling about her not telling you everything and try and work things out. If it means getting an abortion and breaking things off-fine- but be supportive and be with her - even as just as a friend for support.
2006-08-29 03:51:08 · answer #3 · answered by Chrys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take care of your child. it has no choice who it's its dumbass parents are. Who treat birth as a tool to manipulate a relationship.
Take care of your kid, and grow the hell up. You're not a boy anymore.
Love that kid, and don't blame it for your misery, that was your own fault
2006-08-29 03:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand where you are coming from bro... its hard but leave her dude, no questions asked and no excuses given. IF she is pregnant than be the father but other than that get her out of your life. Im glad i did with my ex...
2006-08-29 03:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by Foxhound 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt be with her....u sound very possessive and u dont trust eachother...it doesnt sound healthy and it wont be a healthy atmosphere for a baby to grow up in...sounds like ur better off apart
2006-08-29 03:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by sangwhich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she is keeping that type of relationship from you maybe she isnt too serious about you. and if she IS pregnant, and is still acting all weird... maybe u should juss talk to her. if she juss wants to be friends, well maybe its hER xhoice if she wants to be a single mother...
2006-08-29 03:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by singing soul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have an abortion, do it or regret it for ever, anyway it costs only around 300 bucks
2006-08-29 03:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by Lambada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she told you everything, you prob. couldn't handle it, not saying that you are weak but men offer women something all day everyday
2006-08-29 03:51:18 · answer #9 · answered by chrisp972000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep laying her
2006-08-29 03:50:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋