how shd i convense my parents to allow me to do tht becze i cant live widout him i love him like anything
2006-08-28 20:24:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean this as a polite answer - I am sure you feel you do love him, but if you have to obey what your parents say then you really are not old enough to make your own decisions about this. If he feels the same about you he'll wait a couple of years for you.
Sorry to sound such a drag - but listen to your parents on this one.
2006-08-28 20:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by marzipanthecat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, my congrats to u on two counts
a) Having found a Soul-Mate
b) Having such loving parents that U want to convince them and not abandon them
To me, Honest and open talk with your parents is the only way. ofcourse, it needs lots of time and patience. Sometime, a lifetime of prejudices could come in the way. You should be able to understand why they hold the opinions, and convince them that in the end, this guy would be good for you. If you can do that, your parents should agree.
2006-08-28 20:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by ks_anand_77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love some one n ur parents dnt allow to do tht wht shd i do?
What is that "THAT" means? sex? marriage?
About the grammar, there are errors. Anyway, who would be the one that will be in the altar with the man, your parents? or you? If he has serious intentions and has deep deep affection to you, sheesh stand up for him! But if only for sex, no comment haha!
2006-08-28 20:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by > smoj < 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
us parents seem to have a second sight ,you must remember we have been around a lot longer than you ,and as parent we love our children totaly even though we maybe dont show it as much as we should ,but if your parents are saying no to this boy them you shoud at least listern ,or ask them as a growing adult why they feel as they do ,they may have very good cause,ask them to discusse this with you ,tell them how you feel ,but without shouting as you youngsters tend to do as this will solve nothing ,it may feel he is too old for you ,or he maybe into things that youre parents dont want you getting involved with .either way for them to say no to you about this person they will have a reason ,remember the last thikng they will want is for you to get hurt ,they are trying to protect you from something .
please open up to them and ask ,as we are people to you know ,we are not all from another plannet,and any way your parents shoul be your best friends ,and if they are not then its time you worked on that ,before worrying about a boy who you havent known long ,as your parents have known you since you were born .and they do love you ,and also what you may be thinking is love ,may only be a fad as it takes some people all their lives to find real love ,and its something that grows with time ,not something that you have just met or bumped into ,or known for a couple of weeks ,be very carefull how you handle this or you could be left crying,this boy has probably got his eye on lots of girls,but thats a boy thing,be grown up and ask you parents what there thoughts are ,you might be happily surprised.
2006-08-28 20:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by whitecloud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should try to get him and yr family closer, by getting them to have meal together, go outing/trip. Let yr parents understand him better. And more often when u out buy food/somethings yr parents like, and as on behalf from yr boyfriend. It will work, but need times for them to accept him (with true facts that work well). Any help, feel free to contact me.
2006-08-28 20:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by AT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart your parents will come around eventually to the idea. Sometimes parents are blinded to their kids love life only because they don't want to admit your growing up. But, if you don,t follow you heart you regret it. Just think of Romeo an Juliet.
2006-08-28 20:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by bubbles2615 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 01:01:39 · answer #7 · answered by raffone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow You Intuition
2006-08-28 20:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by Singapore_Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r a major and educated enough to live on ur own..and if u r sure tht u can stay ur whole life wth dat person then marry him..and later on ur parents will only accept u..all da best!!!!
2006-08-28 20:27:33 · answer #9 · answered by sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your love is meant to be, your parents would see the gentleman in him. Give it time, and don't give up your life for him. Don't kill yourself just because you are banned from loving him.
Matters of the heart will unfold with a little effort.
2006-08-28 20:27:10 · answer #10 · answered by Bl00die 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋