how a 3 year boy should be handled if he gets arrogant,throws things if he is not getting something needed?

Answer 1

Be consistant and show that child who is the parent by being patient but firm. It's hard and a pain, but if it's not stopped now that child is going to think they run the house and everyone there is going to be doing for him instead of letting him learn to do for himself. Yes, a three year old does need to learn how to do for himself and part of that is teaching the child what is okay and what is not and how to handle things, like disappointment.

Answer 2

We have taken the route to remove whatever our foster kid throws, and give him the opportunity with positives behaviors to earn the stuff back, if he acts up too much, we have gone as far as to remove everything from his room except for his bed. believe it or not, he does calm down and generally earns all of his stuff back within a few days. But it takes awhile before it happens again, i might also suggest... figuring out the cause . Typically whining and throwing things is brought on because of wanting attention. Maybe you could schedule some 'special time' with your son every day, before the whining starts just to reinforce that you love him, and that he doesn't need to attract your attention negatively by whining. reinforce the positive behaviors rather than discipllining the negative and over some time you will see some improvement

Answer 3

Firmly tell him that he is not going to get what he wants, no matter how he throw things, and if he continues, give him a time out. Put him in his room, and he will eventually calm down. The important thing is not to give in, or else the child will very well likely walk all over you for the rest of your life.

Answer 4

carefully and sternly. what does he not get? i don't fully understand the question. if he wants something that is different than a need. if the child is denied a basic need then the parents should be questioned etc. if it is just something that he wants, he needs to learn that he won't always get what he wants. this can be done various ways. it's really up to the style of the parent. whatever you do, don't give into a temper tantrum. if they do it in public, leave and go home. teach them that they cannot behave that way.

Answer 5

the 3 year old sounds like he's having a tantrum. you need to tell him what he did wrong and why it's wrong, and give him a natural consequence to the behaviour....'cups are not for throwing, now mommy's got to clean up the mess you made. so you will have a time out in your room without your toys.' it's important to state the problem and why it is a problem so the infant or child or teen understands what they are doing is inappropriate conduct.

Answer 6

With patience. Part of this is a normal developmental stage that all kids go through. Three year olds are beginning to learn how to reason and it is possible to start to use logic with them. And consequences. The time out is a big deal in our house.

Answer 7

u have to give ur love to baby if he wants something than u give if not then any alternative of that this happen may be because u full fills any others need her bro or sis u just tell baby that u r young when u getb bugger than i give a all that things

Answer 8

create a naughty bench or chair.
whenever he does something wrong, force him to sit there until he realises his mistake.

also show love and care. but don't forget too much care will make the boy the courage to do whatever he wishes.

Answer 9

Quickly hold him lovingly. Tell him firmly that he's not supposed to do that, explain to him why. Eventually he will understand. I don't agree with spanking. It works for my kids. Having their feelings listened and attended makes them feel better and calmer.

Answer 10

TIME OUT FOR 1 MIN AND CHERISH HIS LIFE WITH LOVE BE OK JUST SMILE AND HUG HIM WHEN HE BEING GOOD AND WHEN HE MAD LET HIM CRY TILL HE DONE THEN RESPOND TO HIM SMOTHING VOICE HELP HIM KNOW WHAT RIGHT WHAT IMPORTANT YA HONESTY WITH HIM HEART TO HEART YOU GIVING HIM THE BEST GIFT WHEN HE KNOW THE BOND THE LIMITS ... ALWAYS THINK OF CREATING OUTLET FOR HIS FEELING LISTEN TO YA HEART YA BE GOING TO ANOTHER LEVEL WITH HIM HE UNDERSTAND HE CAN ACT OR CRY AND YOU NEED TO BE STRONG CARING MOMMY .... TELL HIM THERE A RIGHT WAY WRONG WAY .. TEACH HIM THE RIGHT WAY MORE YOU DO THAT HE LEARN RESPECT THAT ... IT OK TO HAVE FEELING EXPRESSING THE RIGHT WAY BY OPENING YA HEART TREASURE HIM HE LITTLE GUY KISS HUG TO YOU BOTH!!!