I don't know what to do about this.....please help:(?

Question

well my girlfriend and me loved each other in the summer,we only talked to each other..ONLY each other...then school started and she keeps lieing to me about everything..i ask her to tell me EXACTLY what happend at school each day she gets home from school and she tells me then later on i find out from her friends all this other stuff that happend and when i confront her about it she says she forgot about it...and they are really important things..like guys tryin to kiss her and flirting with her and stuff...yet she claims she forgot...i dunno what to do...

Answer 1

She's already emotionally dropped you. She forgot? Dont' be as stupid as her answer. She's being flirty and likes the attention. and doesn't want to be tied to one guy. You need to dump her before she hurts you. Just date her and not exlusively. Your too young to get so attached.

Answer 2

The most important thing in a relationship is trust, obviously you don't have this star quality, until you can trust someone and not keep checking up on the person you are suppose to love, the relationship is going nowhere. This goes for relationships in the future too. Learn to trust and enjoy life to the full, it's too short to waste.

Answer 3

The reason most likely she forgot about them, is because she doesn't like the jerks that try to kiss and make passes at her. If it were really important she would then remember, and would most likely let you in on the issues.

Also there might be other girls that like you too, and they are just trying to cause problems between you and your girlfriend

Answer 4

I'll be honest with you here-- stop being so controlling of her. She is her own person, let her be herself. You dont have to know evey single detail that goes on in her life. The real problem you should be facing is why she no longer tells you eveything. Have you hurt her in some way? I think that if you are serious about this relationship, then you should seek counselling.

Answer 5

You're too young to have to deal with dramatic relationships. First: You're trying too hard to be controlling over her, maybe she doesn't want to have to answer to you for everything she does. Second: This is just how teenage girls are...fickle. One day they'll love you, the next day they're over it. Just shrug this one off and move on. Third: You don't need to be concentrating on relationship trouble right now, you need to pay more attention in school, perhaps you may learn something about grammar and sentence structure :)

Answer 6

Just back off with the questions and accusations. It's school she's just having fun, or if it's too much for you just give her an ultimatum to either be truthful and trust you or break up.

Answer 7

May be she doesnot want to hurt you by tell all these sort of things. i to never use to tell by boy friend about all the things but later i realized that our relationship is becoming worse. so i have started to tell him, i call him every 5mins and talk.Though i am busy i will call him.
Talk to her that you does not like this kind of behaviour.

Answer 8

ok the problem is in my oppinion she just doesnt wanna to make you nerves because just think if she will say that some boy was trying to kiss me youll start to screem and you gonna get mad so she loves you and dont worry is you belong to eachother everythibg gonna be all right!:)

Answer 9

Heavens sake, stop with the 3rd degree. It is intrusive and controlling, and nobody likes to have that for very long.

Answer 10

Start with stopping the Inquisition. I mean, who are you her boyfriend or her warden. Clearly you have some control issues. You need to control yourself.