will you ever go out with somebody who has a child? or if you have a child would you date somebody who has or does not have a child? please answer honesty?
2006-08-28 20:02:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is nothing wrong with u
it may happen any where if u like the person , find him/her attractive , u may like to go with him /her
some consider it wrong
personally i dont mind this
2006-08-31 23:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to go out with someone with a child, as long as the child was reasonably well behaved and the person was a good parent. I have run into some bad situations both ways. I love children and have none of my own, so I love getting to spend time with the kids but it's hard if you don't know for sure if it's going to last. Most of the kids seem so starved for attention that they take anything they can get, even if they're sure that they'll never see me again.
2006-08-28 20:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys are leary (I know I am) because it shows that maybe this person wasn't very responsible. In todays world of STD's and unexpected births, it's irresponsible to have children in an unstable family situation. or to even have unprotected sex like many young guys want to have, especially black guys and the woman stupidly goes along with it.
There are millions of women that have several kids at a young age from different guys and then they want a new guy to love her and clean up the mess. Some people also let their kids do whatever they want and they are hell to be with and being the new guy on the block is tough.
I personally would not go out with a girl that had a kid or kids. Too difficult and too much baggage.
2006-08-28 20:09:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have dated women with children in the past. At my age (30) and given where I live it is almost impossible to find a woman that doesn't have at least one child. And I will say that the relationship always ends because of some issue with the kids. Single mothers fixate on their kids so much that very few of them are able to honestly love a man romantically. I know of very few relationships that actually work out in this situation until the kids are older and out of the house. You'd be better off isolating the man from your children as long as you possibly can in order to build one on one love with him. I'm talking months and months before he meets the kids..even if he brings it up...explain to him that you'd like to keep that part of your life seperate for now and get to know each other and develop trust and respect between each other before you bring him into your family unit.
2006-08-28 20:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by Big Thinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, personally, would not. I would not be able to handle seeing/dating someone who has a child. But I do know people who have and dont have a problem with that. IF I did have a child I would like to find someone who also has a child.
2006-08-28 20:06:47 · answer #5 · answered by hicksvilleny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart what you have to remember is that when it comes down to it your child is a reflection of yourself to some degree. If a man is attracted to you then he is not going to have second thoughts about being with you. If anything but the fact you probably have an adorable child it only proves to him that your the type of women who wants a family. i'm a 22 y.o gay female and if you where gay and had a child it would not make me think twice.
2006-08-28 20:19:40 · answer #6 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would Date someone who had a child...
My mom was a single mother.. She dated more when i was younger.. But they were mostly *******. But she did find some great guys. But it dose slim down the people who would date able, because you also have to think about the kid when you date someone. Because if there good to you but not to your child that would be a no go.
2006-08-28 20:09:39 · answer #7 · answered by brian h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wroung with you. It's all a matter of preference. And I opt no thank you on someone with a child. Realtionships are hard enough without adding more drama to the mix.
2006-08-28 20:06:33 · answer #8 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course! The divorce rate is up to 50%.
That means at least half of those divorced have children.
It's more common the older you get, to realize that by your late 20's/ 30's, most people have kids.
And not everyone's relationship holds out that long.
2006-08-28 20:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by lucy_shy8000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 01:01:03 · answer #10 · answered by raffone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
answer yes, yes, i think that it could work out better if both have children because of the understanding that both will bring to the date when it comes to the children being involved . but i think it would work out even if ones does not have children if the feelings are right
2006-08-28 20:07:54 · answer #11 · answered by bigdog10210210 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋