He lets girls flirt with him. I hate that and he knows it.
Now he won't return my calls, but it's happened before, so we just have to cool down.
Why do guys do this?
2006-08-28 19:59:14 · 9 answers · asked by Kelly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all he can't control the girls that flirt with him, secondly you shouldn't let it bother you at all. When you show that it bothers you then you unintentionally empower people to get under your skin or make you react to the most stupid childish things. SO WHAT if girls flirt with him as long as he is respectful of you and doesn't cross the line. I am of the mind set what's good for the goose is also good for the gander. Give him a taste of his own medicine, see if he likes guys flirting or hitting on you and you responding in the same manner that he does with the girls that hit on him. If he is not respectful and you have trust issues then your problem is more serious than harmless flirting. Personally if my significant other was behaving in a manner that caused me to be uncomfortable and he didn't correct the behavior after he had been told that it caused distress I would take an approach that would cause him the exact same distress to get my point across, this has only happened once and he didn't like it at all, but it cured the insensitivity issues right away! If your going to do it make it count and make sure that he has no misunderstanding that if he wants reciprocal treatment then he needs to treat like he wants to be treated!
2006-08-28 21:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 21:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember in kindergarten, a boy would hit a girl then the girl would chase him around. This may not be good attention, but it's attention; we like it. You getting jealous of him is like chasing him around the playground. The first thing you need to do is stop it.
Girls flirt with him - they give him attention; then, you react and give him more.
If you want to stop this kind of behavior, be okay with him flirting around; then guess what, you can do it too. Look at it this way, if he doesn't slow the flirting down, you may just meet someone better.
p.s. I know you know this...no one likes a jealous gf, so don't be that girl.
2006-08-28 20:37:00 · answer #3 · answered by unprdctble_m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to have to be the one to tell you this, but if your man seeks attention in other girls or likes having them flirt with him, he ain't no good for you, cause flirting sooner or later turns into deception and you don't want that to be the reason for a break up. The worst thing about a break up is when you have lost to another - makes you feel really low!!
Get rid of him and find someone that can respect you and have eyes only for you! You need to start believing you are worth it...
2006-08-28 20:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The partnership between you and him seems to be one-sided if your jealousy is valid. Your jealousy also shows because you are not confident of your relationship with him. Why?
Are you afraid that he will leave for another?
Do not worry too much. Show him that you can also be attractive to others, then he will pay more attention to you.
Everytime you fear him leaving, he will feel more confident and you will become easy for him to manipulate. Why make your life miserable? You should be in control of yourself and not let him control your life!.
2006-08-28 20:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cuz its in their nature... Well most of them. I mean everyone has a bad and revenge side. Gurl you gotta ignore it all he wants is a reaction and it sounds to me thats what he's getting! So dont show any reaction. Atleast not around him. Jealousy is a horrid thing.
2006-08-28 20:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by ɫɦɾouɡɦ ɫɦɛ ɛɣɛʂ oʄ ɫɦɛ ɑvɛɴɢɛd 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry not all guys do this and you need to cut him off right now if he had any respect for you he wouldn't even let that go on and have you hurt move on find a guy that's going to treat you right without all the bs
2006-08-28 20:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they want to have alot of women.
2006-08-28 20:04:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He does not appriciate you. Leave him.
2006-08-28 20:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by sampaul21 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋