i think i can over everything , but today i can't contral myself to connect the guy who is more younger than me and live in USA, i live in singapore,i don't think we have future,i feel everything like a dream it is unreal,but it is comfortable to talk to he , i also very enjoy he say "i love you" can you tell me how can i end the everything and should i want to end everything,i am very comfused help me plz????????????????????????
2006-08-28 19:59:14 · 15 answers · asked by annesweetyfl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest. That's the solution to everything.
2006-08-28 20:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by Baxter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships can be very hard. I can understand that it will be hard to not talk to him while you are online because he makes you feel special. There is only one way to end or change this and that is to be honest. Tell him how you feel about the distance and how impossible you see the situation. Tell him how you can't see the two of you having a future together. But also, importantly tell him how you feel about his friendship, how he makes you feel when you talk to him, he may feel the same way, suggest that you slow things down and remain friends, it's always good to have someone you can trust to talk to when you need it. Send me a messege if you would like any other advice or help.
2006-08-29 03:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can help yourself out of this " normal everyday problem of the heart."
" dont think have a future" why? you seemed to be resourceful, dont give up so easily. distance is no problem, its determination and the power of your feels for each another. " 2 heads are better than 1", we've " 2 hearts here and are they baeting as 1 ?'
ask yourself, what makes you comfortable in talking to him and say " I love you ". is it long distance and fighting the reality of meeting and face to face conversation?
saying " I love you " should be with the heart and is it recived the same way?
to quit just stop everything but it takes strength and determination.
to end everything only if its a " one way traffic " with no reponse and contribution from the otherside? Love works both ways, the giver should be receiving and exchaging and not only one way.
decision is entirely yours, is it improving and advancing? decision is yours.
2006-08-29 04:05:41 · answer #3 · answered by dream_drifter05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are living in a dream world aren't you? Be realistic and live a life in Singapore. Get to meet and know real people here, in your own hometown! "I love you" are only words which everyone who can speak, utters easily.
How's the "love" put into action by your so-called "lover"?
2006-08-29 03:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwwww...that's sounds so sweet, ummm maybe you can like see if he feels the same way you do about him and either you can move to the GREAT USA...and start a family with the man of your dreams....I really don't know what else to tell you sweetie but I hope everything works out...
2006-08-29 03:04:09 · answer #5 · answered by ("_") 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man can say "i love u" trust me it's not that hard for them.
These men who lie come after girls with pure heart and soul and think it is no harm in that.
It's best if u ignor him, you think ur in love with him but he is not.
that dreamy feeling inside is something you always wanna feel since ur a lil girl, coz it makes u smile when u know that someone care for u when u know u can't.
But as u said it's a dream..........It is best to end the dream then fall from some lies...to really love someone and know they love u is Face to face.
I hope i help u with ur question.
smile*
2006-08-29 03:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationship is very difficult. If he is sincere, probably he will visit you at Singapore. "I love you" in the net is becoming a common word, which have become so meaningless.
2006-08-29 03:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello honey... try to relax your self... some times words can confuse people.. words can make people happy and can make people sad..
You must be a strong and try to control your self... we all need some one to confort us, to pamper us, to love us and to care for us too.. but if this is not there we must try to comfort our own self..
I have been cheated by woman before, but i dont take it as all woman are like this.. i still belief that there are still nice woman out there in the world.. but most important is we do not want to get cheated by them again...
so i hope you are also the same..
2006-08-29 04:57:18 · answer #8 · answered by Love69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think that you will not have future with him just ignore and leave him. Find another good and right man for you
2006-08-29 03:07:58 · answer #9 · answered by Fie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to come to Singapore if he's sincere about you.
2006-09-01 13:11:56 · answer #10 · answered by Grace is a liar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋