I think it is since Im very religious and she is as well, what religion would ours children follow if we ever get married?
2006-08-28 19:52:37 · 10 answers · asked by steve r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Humanity " Your children should follow humanity.
And religion can never be a barrier between true love.
2006-08-28 19:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, religion is a barrier. Maybe not so much now, but if you have kids together you'll definitely find out.
You ask the right question at the right time: which religion would your children follow? One or the other of you would probably have to give in to the other--and probably feel resentment, or maybe even make the kids some kind of eternal battleground.
Talk about that with her NOW, and see if there's a future for the two of you.
The good news is that every religion has its problems, and I think every one can be abandoned.
Why are you two together in the first place if religion is so important? You must both believe that the other is excluded from God.
2006-08-29 02:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by Baxter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely a serious barrier - I'm an atheist and most seriously religious people could never date me because of that. Their loss, I say.
2006-08-29 02:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by Kleineganz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on which one you choose for your children to follow. Children generally pick up on their mom's religious ideas because they spend more time with their mothers.
2006-08-29 02:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it doesn't have to be, but when people have children there will be arguments over what religion they should take up. perhaps let them choose when they are older. aunt is catholic, uncle atheist and one day the kids decided not to go to church anymore. aunt was pissed to the high heavens
2006-08-29 02:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by whiteplum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
religous is e very VERY great barrier. well, at Indonesia, they let the children to follow what religous they want to follow.
2006-08-29 02:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by kito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teach the Values of both to the child and then when the child is older they will choose.
2006-08-29 02:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by brian h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In marriage, a couple should be equally yoked. Marriage is difficult enough.
2006-08-29 02:58:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't burden them with YOUR beliefs and the related dogma.
let them find their own.
2006-08-29 02:56:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they follow god if both of u beleive in god.
2006-08-29 02:55:36 · answer #10 · answered by Slacker34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋