and then slap her if she gets mouthy? really im from a catholic home and wasnt taught this was wrong.
2006-08-28 19:43:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure she's just roleplaying the innocent virgin girl.
2006-08-28 19:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course it's wrong. It's illegal and immoral to force someone to sleep with you. She could accuse you of rape or emotional blackmail. Be very careful. The law is way too strict on certain issues. Never hit a girl. That is the act of a coward! Some people are so against men hitting women that they would become angry enough to kill the guy.
You are catholic. Ask yourself, "What would Jesus do?"
As for that, having sex before marriage is against your religion. The Catholic faith is governed by rules. If you break these rules, you are not living according to Catholism.
So be a man and stop pressuring people to do waht they dont want, stop hitting people, and wait untill you get married to have sex!!!
2006-08-29 02:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do I not believe you? If you were a good Catholic, you would have been taught to respect women, to not inflict violence on others and not to engage in fornication (premarital sex). So, if you weren't taught this was wrong then (a) you weren't paying attention in church, and (b) your parents did a lousy job of raising you. Oh, and by the way, forcing a girl to have sex with you when she doesn't want to (even if it is your wife or girlfriend) is called RAPE, and you can go to jail for that. Asshole!
2006-08-29 02:47:40 · answer #3 · answered by Perplexed Music Lover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Einstein, it's not OK! If you have any feelings for the girl at all, then you'll treat her better than that. AND...It doesn't matter if you were born in a Catholic home or not...you knew it was wrong before you asked the question, or you never would have thought about it to begin with. Good Luck!
2006-08-29 02:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jaded 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, u dont, thats rape, and u never ever strike a woman. BUT u could have talked her into it, she is a girl and ur a guy, so she'll listen to u if u are a little persistent and try talking her into it. If she still doesnt want to then u respect her wishes and stop.
2006-08-29 02:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with boozemuse22. With out her permission you can't touch any woman even she will be a prostitute. If you have sex with a woman even if she doesn't wanna do what kid of feeling you gonna get ? It's like an animal act. Also that's equal to RAPE> If a woman says NO that's mean NOOOOOOOOOOO. Never NO gonna be Yeah you always welcome. :)
2006-08-29 02:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by mswathi1025 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, that aint right... that would be called rape, when you try to force someone, anyone, to have sex with you... thats terrible! so, try not to get violent if she says no to you, and dont slap her cause then that will result in being alone... just wait till when the time is right, when the both of you want to have it... but dont force her...
2006-08-29 02:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex must be mutual, women reserve the respect. A force sex is rape, regardless is your girlfriend or any girl.
2006-08-29 02:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is what she Likes* then its fine.. but otherwise not that is not ok. And if you have done this more than Once or at all why is she still with you?
*"If that is what she Likes"- Some Girls like that kinda thing.. and they usally have Safe Words...
2006-08-29 03:03:21 · answer #9 · answered by brian h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definatley not!!!! If u want her to still b ur gf the next day & not be arrested i suggest u take no 4 an answer
2006-08-29 04:07:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were taught wrong. You should respect your girlfriend's decisions and should never, ever strike her, unless it's self-defense (which it wasn't). I hope she finds someone else and leaves you. You sound like a real asshole.
2006-08-29 02:46:29 · answer #11 · answered by Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋