how strange!
i used to not be scared at all around my girlfriend, but now i am! i feel like she doesn't want me to be around, but it might just be me. i always worry i will say something stupid. again.
but now for some reason i have a hard time expressing my feelings to her, mostly showing how i love her.
actually, i never said "i love you" to her yet
those are the 3 hardest words to say, because the reaction..... and how big it is...... it may make them think "CRAP" or "YEAHHH"
.......but i have written to her i love her........and shown her, or, implied it..........
so, any advice for me to look not nervous, worried, afraid, and just like i am cool with everytihng
smooth
easy flowing
???
thanx
2006-08-28 19:39:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best advice anyone could give you is - BE YOURSELF. That's all you'll ever need, is yourself. Good luck!
2006-08-28 19:48:10 · answer #1 · answered by drewbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you so afraid of?...rejection?....that she won't like you if she sees the "real you"? These are common feelings...you should know that a lot of guys...and girls....have these same feelings.
I agree with some of the others who said to "be yourself"...
When it comes right down to it, that's really all you can be...yourself. Stop torturing yourself wondering what it is that she wants, so that you can be that imaginary person....How is that good for you? You and your feelings matter just as much as hers, you know....and remember, she's not the only girl out there. There are a lot of girls out there who are looking for the very person that you are naturally.
So, that's my final answer.....be true to yourself, first....everything else will just fall into place.
2006-08-29 03:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by Renee' 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
insecurities eat away anyone and everyone. i know how hard it can be but just be yourself. if you don't feel secure with yourself then it will show. consider talking to her about your insecuirities most girls like sensitive guys. if you love her don't worry about the actual words actions speak louder and she will see your feelings. write a list of attributes that you like about yourself. it may seem stupid but it will serve a reminder of how great a person you are and the reason she decided to date you. love yourself and others will love you
2006-08-29 02:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by whiteplum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women want guys to show emotion but lose a lot of respect for them once they do. Chicks want a guy in control and it sounds like yours is slipping away.
2006-08-29 02:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by CallMeDigitalBob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've told her in writing and didn't leave you...then more than likely, she's just waiting for you to tell her in person. Don't worry about things so much.
2006-08-29 02:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by Jaded 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself..and be honest. The words will flow out naturally.
2006-08-29 02:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by ginger n' spice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your scared coz u think you will stuff up
but been on edge around her is probably stuffing it up more
just be chill and you dont have to say i love you sure its important but its not everything just make sure when you feel comfortable saying it you say it and if she says it say it back straight away
2006-08-29 03:03:32 · answer #7 · answered by scatter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes actions speak louder than words. If you love her, SHOW HER! when you see her, be hapy to see her
2006-08-29 02:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by johnnysgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you either tell her are lose her its your choice. it sounds like she might be getting tired of waiting no you .
2006-08-29 02:46:26 · answer #9 · answered by lovinonly#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just smile while u r talking
2006-08-29 02:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by Rashil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋