2006-08-28 19:35:39 · 9 answers · asked by a7r6b k 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
It all depends on what the bullying is. They may not bully you, and then that's great, if someone does act mean to you, just say, leave me alone, or I don't have time to waste on you. Then tell your teacher, your principal, your librarian, your coach, anyone who will listen to you. You will have to stand up for yourself throughout life, and you will have to learn confidence in yourself. However, some people will never listen and they will never learn. They will be the losers in town who never leave where they grew up and never make anything of themselves. You are better than they are, just remember that all the time. You are better than them. You're nice to everyone, you're a super person, and you can do anything you put your mind to.
Don't ever let someone take advantage of you and try to spill your lunch tray on you or pull your hair or talk bad about you. They are silly stupid kids and things will get better. If they are physically threatning you, you can call the police, if they threaten you in a public place, like the cafeteria, get the teacher who is observing to help out.
I'm a teacher and I see it everyday, and if someone ever spilled my lunch tray on me, I would grab the first can of orange soda and pour it all on top of their head!! You'll probably get called into the office, but hey, if they haven't listened to you before and it keeps on going, you have to take matters into your own hands.
One good embarassment in front of the whole class, and you'll be the coolest girl in school!
And if that doesn't work, pull every trick in the book. Look up practical jokes to pull and do them all! I got bullied for two weeks at a new school in 7th grade and I got picked on b/c I wasn't as 'grown up' as the other girls (I was the late bloomer of the class and I didn't have any boyfriends, but I was new to the town and didn't know anyone). I put worms in food, poured drinks on the girls, put gum in their hair, stood on the lunch table and told every secret this one girl had to the whole school, and from then no one ever picked on me or my friends! It may not have been the smartest thing to do, but my dad always said, don't start a fight, end it!
Good Luck!!
2006-08-28 20:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by spunnky911 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once you stand up to a bully they have no power over you anymore. Bullies are really weak people themselves, so they have to make themselves feel more powerful by picking on other people that they feel are weaker than they are. If you show them that you're not going to take their crap and that they can't bother you, they'll move on to someone else to torment. So next time they try to bother you just ignore them totally(pretend they don't even exist) or look them in the eye and tell them you don't care what they think... you have a life and don't have time to worry about their pitiful existence.
Of course if you at all feel that you are in any real physical danger from these girls, let someone at the school know and let the authorities handle the situation.
Good luck and be strong.
2006-08-28 19:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by MELISSA B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like you aren't a fighter so plain and simple don't. you'll just get hurt until you decide to learn to fight physically and win. until then steer clear. after a while they'll find someone else to bully. remember though, if you are ever cornered and don't have a choice, go for the eyes and bring blood. they won't be able to see and you can get out of there.
2006-08-28 19:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by poobear Libertarian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up to her face to face. Ask her what her problem is. Just before she replies. Give her a good head butt to the face and open a can of whip azz all over her.
Are you going to be punked all of your life. You got to make a stand while your still young. Soon you will be in High School and it will just carry on. Do what I said & you will start to make a name for yourself.
2006-08-28 19:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by acidcrap 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I was bullied when i was your age. All i can say is to stick up for yourself. Stay clear of them and wait until you get the hell outta there.
2006-08-28 19:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't pay action to them thats what they want just let it roll over try to be there frind dont do anything stuped
2006-08-28 19:48:45 · answer #6 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus listen 2 them n later kick der a** off ~~
2006-08-28 19:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude nogthings matters other people think all kinda stuss
2006-08-28 19:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
roll your eyes at them but dont run away!
2006-08-28 19:40:15 · answer #9 · answered by suenos 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋