Does she like me?

Question

She is my girlfriend. I don't know if she likes me anymore, I did some really, really, really stupid things. I can't tell, because she is always so mysterious, even before i messed things up!

I always was the one who would go sit by her.

But since i screwed up and i think she is pissed, i thought

"It would be better if i let her choose to sit by me or not, because if you think about it, you wouldn't want someone who pissed you off coming and sitting next to you to make things worse!"

so i did.

and she didn't sit by me.

today i sat by her at lunch, it was all good.

a coupla days ago, she rested her head on my shoulder on a car ride home, but her friend was there too, and i think my girl may have been doing that just to make me feel better because my friend told her how sad i was

but today in class she didn't sit by me

and i was thinking....... should i keep sitting alone and wait for her to come, or would that just make her think i lost interest in her?

Answer 1

Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!

Answer 2

OK so you have done some stupid things. maybe she doesn't want to put herself out there because she knows that your capable of hurting her again.your girlfriend probably feels that you should be going out of your way to make an effort and show her that u are truly sorry about your mistakes.
your girlfriend would break up with you if she really didn't like you.
maybe right now its time for a knight in shinning armour?

Answer 3

if she is your girlfriend then you should be able to talk to her about your insecurities. although women are known for their intuition, they are no means clairvoyant. women hate desperate, needy guys. so just ask her what's on her mind >>pms perhaps?<< what do you mean by "stupid things" as long as it's not cheating on her then you're fine maybe there are rumors floating around and she's feeling insecure about being with you-ie not good enough and whatnot. yes she will be pissed to the high heavens if you just ignore her. hesitation does nothing. communication is the basis in every relationship. good luck

Answer 4

if things feel awkward between the two of you, then something is definitely wrong. to be blatant, i think she's in that stage where she's going to slowly and eventually break up with you. if you still have strong feelings for her, just be ready when the time comes. other then that, i'd say...

confront her. instead of getting dumped, talk it over and perhaps you can have a mutual break-up. atleast this way you can still be good friends.

Answer 5

Bro u got this one just dont do anymore stupid things. Just take things easy just keep giving her attention and make sure that she knows that u still care for her. Ok. Hey and if things dont work out just realx and dont take it too hard alright. Be the ex who gets a clean break off.

Answer 6

YOu have the answer in all between your question! you must learn to read between the lines...Stop the pride thing, set it aside..Be a man and do right by your lady and go and sit by her...Believe me you'll have more than her head resting on your shoulder!!!

Answer 7

why dont you just talk to her and instead of wondering if she likes you or wants to be with you, find out by asking.

Answer 8

You need to ask her.....